ANSWERS: 4
  • I could never be friends with someone I don't trust. I applaud the way you are handling this. You are right, she is not worth it.
  • You can keep the peace with her, be an aquantance for the sake of your other friends. but just never put your trust in her hands again. when friends fight it is hard on the other firends in the group. I think it is a civilised way to treat each other with respect but dont treat her how you did before by tell her things etc... but no need to walk around calling her a skank ra ra ra or saying stuff behind her back. that only starts more trouble
  • i had a similar situation. i dont trust her at all, not one bit, but she was my friend for more then four years, so i told her "i'm not going to fight with u or argue with you, but just so you know ur still my friend, even if we dont get along very well" i dont talk to her much but when sumthing serious came up the first person she told was me, so yea even if u dont trust her dont lose her friendhip cuz one day u might need her.
  • Why would you want to be friends with someone you cannot trust? There IS a difference between being "friends" and being "friendly". You can be friendly and courteous to people you do not trust. But if they are not trustworthy, then they do not qualify to be "friends" in my book. A friend is more than a coworker or a casual aquaintence. So I say, in the context you have given and the comments you've posted so far, the answer is: "NO, you cannot be friends. You can be courteous and friendly in your behavior towards her, but if you have no trust then a true friendship cannot exist."

Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC

Answerbag | Terms of Service | Privacy Policy