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  • I am sorry you are feeling so bad. I've been there more than once. I have dealt with depression due to numerous problems in my life. The strongest will to keep me living was for my kids. I'm glad to see you have that. Because you know deep down that your son NEEDS you!!! Please don't give in to the urge to quit. I know it's overwhelming sometimes because you just get so tired of trying and feeling like everything you do is wrong. The problem is that there are some chemical imbalances in your brain right now that are causing you to think this way. It's not really you. You need help!! Please call your doctor and get in to see him right away. It's very important and they can help you. You will feel better in time and you'll be so glad you didn't give up. If you can't get in to see your doctor, then go to the emergency room at your nearest hospital and tell them how you're feeling. Find someone to watch your son for you while you go. They will get you the help you need. Please don't wait and don't give up. I will repeat this, Your son NEEDS you!!! You really don't want to leave him alone and even though you're feeling like you're not a good mother right now, you're the best mother he's got and with some help, you will be even better. I believe in you and I care. my e-mail is in my profile. Click on my avatar and it will take you there. I would like you to e-mail me and tell me how you're doing, please. I really do care. I have felt exactly like you and I can tell you it DOES get better. Really!! Trust me.
  • If you love your son you will get help. Get it now. Call your local hot line or hospital and see what programs are open for you and get into therapy. Get your feet back on the ground and find the strenght your son needs. Be strong, be brave and do it for him. Show your son you are strong and he too can be strong someday if he needs to be. Be the best example you can be rigt now and get help.
  • With having a child god has bestowed upon you the greatest things...a life. you may feel that you are a failure but you are the light in your childs eyes. you are the one and only person he can look up to for guidence and security, love and laughter. You have the best thing the world can offer...him. He is your flesh and blood. Therefore death by choice shouldnt be an option...imagine his future. graduation, watching him walk down the isle at his wedding, or your grandkids!! so much to live for!! EVERYONE has had times where life seems meaningless...but you have a meaning right in front of you. you are young like myself we have a lot of years in front of us, suicide is not the route to take. life my be difficult at the present time it WILL get better, take it day by day and look at that little boy you have been given he will help you through it!!
  • If you want to have a life, have one. Get all the help you can and make an effort to get better then make some changes. Your son needs you in his life, so be brave for him and get professional help.
  • You're too young to know enough about life to hate it. Come back and talk to me in about 40 years ... well, talk to someone anyway. I have cancer and diabetes and you are talking about throwing away the very thing that I struggle daily to hang onto ... life.
  • Focus on your son. Take him to school. Volunteer to help at the school. Take lessons in something like painting, writing, music. Give yourself to helping others. Your mission in life is to help others. You can do it and you will achieve self-esteem by following these ideas.
  • Get up off your whiny bitch ass and man up life isn't always grand failure is opportunity knocking you could also have a real mental condition like bi-polar disorder or manic depression see a Dr.
  • awwwh sweety! Dont worry, you are only 24, you have your whole life ahead of you and things can only get better. What age is your child? are you not looking for to the new steps in their life? like school? etc xx
  • I agree with Dani. And having a child at 24 has its challenges too. There are meds and there is support out there. What would you like to see in your life? What makes you a failure? +4
  • believe it or not, I've been in your shoes before..at the age of 16 I was ready for my life to end.. literally... everyday for about a year I would lay in my bed and cry... I tried taking pills,and cuting myself.I would even starve myself for days at a time...I had came to the point where i no longer knew the person I saw in the mirror.I decided to turn to God, and through Him I was able to over come the depression I had fallen into...I'm now 21, engaged, fixing to go to school for art history, and living life to the fullest...don't hate yourself because you have no reason too.your not a failure in life because you have brought a miracle into this world..your son. put yourself in your little boys shoes....do really thing you want him to live a life without his mom...Your purpose in life is right in front of you. God loves you, He always had and he always will. He's showed it by blessing you with your son, please don't take that for granite.

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