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  • cheer up life only gets better rock bottom is the new high
  • Hi. Go seek out the family member that was closest to your granma and tell them how you are feeling. Remember, all are hurting about her death. Hugs are needed and required. There are reasons for the cremation, try to understand them. You will be okay. Let someone lean on you, support them.
  • I'm sorry about your loss. Just remember it is normal to feel devestated especially if you two were close. The sadness you feel is part of the healing. I lost my grandmother too a few years ago. It was a sad time in the family but I found it easier to cope by doing something positive to remember the person. An idea would be to plant a tree in your garden or painting something if you're artistic.
  • Oh-you are NOT insane,sweetie pie.Loss is a great deal.You loved your grandma,right? Still do,right? I understand.I also lost my Grandma,about a year ago.I can sometimes hear her humming like she used to.I know that you are going through a rough time right now,and need a little support.I am here for you if you need to talk,Sweet Pea.I'll help in anyway that I can!*
  • You're not going insane. It's completely understandable to feel this way. I did when my grandfather died. And I agree, thats completely terrible for your family to cremate her against her wishes. Just know that you knew her last wishes, you know what was best and she will forever love you for that. For understanding, for doing your best and being moved by her life here on earth. You can hate your family for how they are feeling at the moment, but understand that they are hurt by this death as well and you should give them time.

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