ANSWERS: 41
  • leave hid dumb ass if he doesnt know what he has infront of him he isn't worth your time or anguish. give him back to the ex, let her deal with him.
  • Dump him. There are plenty other fish in the sea that won't do this.
  • Hunny you got to get yourself some self esteem this man is not worthy of you in his life, tell him to hit the road!!!!!!! You deserve so much more
  • eeks you need to get away from this love sick guy, he's just clinging on to you for love but has his heart somewhere else.
  • You need to get out of this non-existent relationship. He is not your boyfriend if he constantly speaks of his ex. And if he sees her and is all over her and she lets him do that, they are not ex's. He doesn't want you - he wants his ex. He has even told you that he still loves her! Don't continue in something like this. You will be hurt more and more as time goes on. Stop this now. Tell him go to the one he loves and that you are not going to allow him to play this game with you. Good luck!
  • Get out of there right now, if not yesterday! (If you feel generous then teach him that his behaviour is hurtful, and that he shouldn't ever expose anyone to anything like that again.)
  • um... leave his @$$!! he's only doing that because you won't do anything about it. You're letting him walk all over you... and plus if he still loves his ex, talk to her and everything, why are you still with him?* I mean, yes you may love him, but if he loves someone else then it just wasnt meant to be.
  • i hate to say leave him but he is clearly not over her and still has a bond with her if she is allowing him this behavior i would get out before you really get hurt.
  • Right before you dump him, ask him why she's his ex to begin with.
  • He sounds like a fool, you can do better. Tell him it's the memory of her or you. Should be a no brainer.
  • OMG, dump him immediatley. There is no question that this is NOT the man for you.
  • go talk to him! or u just gotta tell him is u or her! or he says her do it the classic style throw his stuff outta da window!
  • Wave bubyes.
  • You should let his ex know how he feels about her then try to hook the two of them up. Then once you have done all that dump him
  • Find a new boyfriend, because he is still in love with his ex. He may be with you physically, but not mentally or emotionally. It's time to move on, I think.
  • Be honest with him.....tell him you dont want to hear his.........abt his ex. and if his not over her then maybe he needs more time. Its clear he doesnt really value you at all and doesnt really care for your feelings. now its up to you to make a move his already told u in many ways where u stand or how impartnant u are....is that how much ur worth?........2nd class? you should put yourself first and dump him.......cuz u dont want to be the rebound sex!!!!!
  • Dump the bastered he obviously take you for his rebound. He his only using you to get back to his ex. Please end this relationship it so obvious he hasn't gotten over her. If she was to welcome him back he will dump you without regretting it.
  • You should dump him. Being alone is better than being 2nd to no one. He doesn't deserve you!!!
  • He still has her on his mind. It is very possible that he is using you as a rebound. What should you do? Well, it might be a wise idea to end your relationship with him.
  • Leave him. Then he can talk about you to the next girl.
  • date a guy who likes you. Its really sad when women date men that dont even like that.
  • There is no way in hell that I would EVER be with anyone who carries a torch for somone else !! Dump this chump and find someone who will love you with all of their heart and soul.
  • you are just his rebound.hes still with her,dont let him use you like this....
  • E-mail me and I'll tell you what to do. williams648@yahoo.com
  • Serious red flag going off in my brain!!! OMG why would you allow yourself to be treated like that. If a man or women is always talking about there ex then they still have some feelings for that person. Dump him and let him get his shit straight. We all deserve to be with someone that will be our everything and would not want to be with or talk about anyone else but use. If they start talking about or kissing on anyone else especially and ex then that is not a good sign
  • Use a cross-cut shredder on the pictures so he can't restore them. Then make it very clear she has to go. If he doesn't tell her off, leave him. But definitely cut the pictures all to hell.
  • See about getting your brain back from the person you donated it to. I'm sincerely hoping that you're kidding with this question because if you don't know what to do, you're probably not ready for the world of adult relationships.
  • Let him go.There's other people out there to date :)
  • Break up with him. It sounds like he's not ready for a relationship yet.
  • Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding!! What do we have here Bob! Another winner!!! Whats behind door number 2!! A brand new car!!!!!!!!!!! Time to get in it, drive off and leave his butt at his ex gfs house....
  • Get another boyfriend & quit wasting your time on that loser.
  • Dump him!
  • If you have to ask--you'll probably stay with him....
  • Leave him. why would you want to live in somebody elses shadow? you could be far better than her but he will NEVER see it... quit beating yourself up over this and allowing him to make you feel unimportant. Let him get over her and find somebody else.
  • tell him to f*** off with his ex
  • I dont think a person should have to get rid of photographs from past relationships, you cant erase what happened, he was with someone else before you, and anyone who disagrees has some serious insecurities. Obviously, he hasnt really left his last girlfriend, if she is so great why arent they together??? Why do allow someone to treat you this way, he doesnt even like you, if he treats you that way, where is your pride? Dump in now! You teach people how to treat you, and you are teaching him to walk all over you, quit being a floormat.
  • D U M P H I M !!!!
  • Honey listen, You deserve better, don't lower your standards because a man comes a dime a dozen. Always look out for #1 and that is YOU. You are a rebound. Kick that loser to the curve.
  • He is not your boyfriend. He is still in love with his ex. It does not take a rocket scientist to see this. You need to find yourself another astraunaut.
  • If you tolerated this behavior and still consider this person your boyfriend, then his behavior was acceptable to you. You can now either continue to tolerate it or move on. Good luck.
  • Obviously tell him how you feel. But if he still loves his ex then maybe you should get rid of him and find someone who is only in love with you and you only.

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