My girlfriend just broke up with me and now she says she wants me and loves me and she didn't know it till i left, but she said she doesn't want a relationship she just needs more time... what should i do, move on? or wait for her? i know i love her but..
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Get some booty and keep your options open
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She just wants sex until she finds a better person she sees as someone to settle down with. So have sex with her until you find another girl friend. They all do the same thing unless they are totally legitimate. Have fun with her and move on. She will use you for sex until she finds another boyfriend who is better marriage material...... People use other people without care for their feelings, they just get what they want and that goes for women and sex too, just like men do. Been there.
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The fact that you said "I know I love her BUT" makes it kinda sound like you already made up your mind. It is not easy to leave someone if you love them even 1%. But this is how I always explain it to my friends. There is usually both love and unlove in a relationship. The things that is frustrating, or aggravating, or hurtful. When the bad outweighs the good... then that is when you need to sit down with your own thoughts and review. Love isn't easy -- but that is why it is so important for both people to want to be in it and make it work. Sorry if it didn't answer your question. But only you know the answer in your heart.
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Hello =) umm.. yes it seems to me as if shes not ready for a relationship right now. either that, or she is not attracted 2 you, she doesnt see you as her boyfriend, but she does see you as a [cutty buddy]. lol. so yeah if i were you ide just have sex with her cause thats all she wants. so just give her what she needs. good for you, and good for her.. right? lol
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Its more a case of can you be without her? Could you move on easily or is this the hardest thing you're having to go through? You need to weigh up your relationship and what it is about it that stopped you from getting back with her - I know you said it was your pride but there is such a thing as cutting off your nose to spite your face. Swallowing your pride and getting back in touch with her will be hard because of the uncertainty, but if you feel reassured by her then go for it. Life is too short to wonder about the 'what ifs'. Good luck
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Sounds like you two are already married. You might wanna talk to some folks in an old folk's home about this situation. It'll open your eyes.
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You know what you need to do. You need to forgive her and yourself. Maybe putting it to rest will give you some relief. Make sure to keep busy. Try finding another girl. Go out to bars, party some! not too much but enough to get her off your mind. Now i dont mean you should trash yourself to not even remembering where u are! Be nice to yourself, you deserve that! I hope this helps a bit and good luck!
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Happened to me same thing last year. Its been 7 months since. Yeah people will tell you time, friends will say go ouot and date. Sure but the only thing that works is to live with her memories. You will never forget her. Just try not to think how much you love her. Focus as if it was a dream. Take time for you. Do things that you want. Girl hopefully right one will come for both of us. Never lose hope
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wait are u asking my she is trying to turn everyone agaisnt u when u did nothing wrong, your asking why she is doing that
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she is taking revenge against you for something. since she broke up with you, i have to ask why. What made her want out?
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Probably because she feels guilty about breaking up with you, and if everyone hates you, then that justifies her decision. Unless you did something really bad, in which case she has every right.
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ut she could never change her ways, so i told her i could never be with her as long as she keeps hurting me, sad thing is tho i still love her but i cant keep getting hurt all the time, i dont know what to do... she is the hardest thing iv ever had to go through
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haha okay so i just realized i'm in the same situation.. and right now im bein the bitchy girl... well in my case its mostly becuase this guy is trying to prove something to me by flirting with other girls in front of me on purpose...i can tell cuz he always looks at me... do you ever show off a little more in front of her? or like flirt more? idk girls are girls..im one and even i cant explain why we do things
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she is just messin with ur mind let it go cuz she is being a b****
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She loves to hurt ppl? Damn, good thing you got out now, before you got married and had kids. She needs help. You might wanna talk to some one about why you been with that kinda person so long, and what makes you attracted to that kind of person. You deserve kind treatment, and to have some one to be kind to. Thats the point of a relationship, no matter what Jerry Springer says.
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she said it was her and not my fault, but i know it was becuz of her friends and they dont like me and shes ben dealing with them nagging on her about me and im almost 100 percent sure that it was her friends that made her do this, but all of them are playing dumb and she is saying no too... and im not gonna lie i fell inlove with this girl and i lost it all
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i dont know... but shes acting really crazy, i didnt do anything to make her feel this way but i dont know what to do about all this, i guess i'll just let things work out on there own... talking to her dosnt wor
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wel she doin this for attention u just gotta turn the tables on her
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