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by SunnyW on January 4th, 2006

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Why does love hurt so much?

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  • by Farino on January 10th, 2006

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    Love doesn't hurt, on the contrary, it is amazing! It is the absence of mutual love that hurts.
    Love is a bond between two people that goes beyond logic and reason, one that overwhelms the mind and senses enough to do things that are aporiable. But when only one person out of these two have this emotion they might not realize that the other might not reciprocate and it is this naiveity that blinds them from the plain and simple truth that they might get hurt as if they were in a relationship that doesn't mean anything what so ever! When/if they do get hurt then they can't understand why this person, who apparently loved them, did what they did. The answer is quite simple: Either that other person doesn't reciprocate or they need reminding that what they are doing to those that they love the most is in fact hurting them! If they change their ways, at least enough to show that they desperately want to try, then they love you back. If they don't then they don't love you back.
    Unfortunately the word love is used far too often or perhaps the bond associated with that word is perceived to be far stronger that it actually is.

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    • no.. love hurts alot if the person you love doesnt love you back

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on September 16th, 2006

    • it doesnt hurt all the time. actually its the best feeling ever. But there are those times when it does hurt. it hurts so badly because your putting your heart on the line. they could either make it....or break it, but you always jave to take that chance.

      bbunny

      by bbunny on December 1st, 2007

    • If the other person doesn't love you then it is not your love that is causing the pain it is their lack of love!

      Farino

      by Farino on December 2nd, 2007

    • Real love requires self-sacrifice and that generally is something that is very painful, even if the feeling is mutual.

      I think love is far more than positive feelings and something that can even seem cruel at times.

      faith87

      by faith87 on June 14th, 2009

    • Love does not hurt but it is the falling out of love or not having love that really hurts.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on November 14th, 2009

    • Why does love make you sad?

      1AmyLynne

      by 1AmyLynne on January 26th, 2010

    • Love makes you totally vunerable to another person and it does hurt sometimes. It can also be the beautiful experience you have in your life. No one is perfect and sometimes the ones we love do things that hurt our hearts and vice-versa. Its scary to have your heart in someone else's hands for them to do whatever they want to it, but what would life be without love.

      Nina18Angel

      by Nina18Angel on April 7th, 2010

    • Nina18Angel

      by Nina18Angel on April 7th, 2010

    • oh come on really,u is wrong love does hurt alot. i would know because i have been in love 2.Trust me it hurts alot.

      tikiya

      by tikiya on October 24th, 2010

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