Anything your wife permits is allowed and fun -- have her describe her boundaries (limits) first. Also, agree on a code word for "stop" before you start -- that way if she's freaking out, you won't think it's like the movies where "stop stop" means "more more". Also, with rope there are risks of rope burns, choking, and loss of circulation, especially if she panics -- so start with soft rope and keep track of the knots -- you might have to untie everything very quickly. Have fun... play safe! more info from a local expert: http://www.eros-ny.com/articles/2006-04-04/rope_bondage0404/

when I met my wife we were at a party and having a snack and i knocked over a candle on her and she looked at me devilishly while I apologised for my clutsieness only for her to tell me if we could go someplace for some more, we chose a safe word and I spent several hours dripping candle wax all over her body. that wa 15 years ago.

My favorite thing is too make her drink a whole bunch (soda pop, or alcohol if possible) and then play wither her vagina and anus - even giver her an enema and make her hold it back. The other game is to wrap her lower section below the breasts and down in seran wrap - keep the heat up and then tear a little bit by the vagina and tongue her till she climaxes. Combine both and its climatic paradise.

What's allowed depends on her, ask her how she'd like to be tied up and how much. Start off slow possibly, say just her wrists, then maybe add ankles, parts of her legs, even hogtying if she wants. I'd say in the beginning go slow with what you'll do to her when she's tied up; I wouldn't exactly spank/slap her around intensely as soon as you tie her up the first time, but caress and feel her up all over her body and kiss/lick her while she's tied up so she feels turned on and comfortable. Maybe ask her if she'd like to be spanked while tied up.

Go for it if you are into it. What is allowed and fun, whatever your imaginations allow.

Your wife is obviously a slut. I like to tie and gag sluts. I usually tie their hands behind their back tightly, and then take three or four pieces of duct tape tightly across their mouths. Then I tie their legs together. When they are completely helpless, I turn them over and give them a long, hard spanking. I finish up by fucking them up the ass and then watching the cum ooze out of their anus. I usually let them squirm for about an hour or so before I spank them again and release them.

if you want my opinion, id think tieing you up would be more fun, and duh mr s o s yes its allowed.

DO what i do...get them sexually into it after I tie them up and then walk away for about 30 min. come back and do it again. THEN really give it to her. she will be so sexually worked up its insane. ;) or you could just walk away nad go watch the game...WHOO HOOO NO INTERUPTIONS!!!...;)

Tie her up and fcuk the shit out of her.

Tie her up and fcuk the shit out of her.

It is very rare that wife asking as submissive is BDSM activity and this is another kind of sexual pleasure. Enjoy it but must have some do & don't of practicing the BDSM.

In BDSM it is simply a matter of what the two of you agree on... if she likes it and you like it, go for it! Sit down and talk with her about her preferences and the two of you come to an agreement on what is allowed and what line not to cross. I assure you that BDSM will be an experience you will not soon forget!!

The things that you two can do are only limited by your imagination and of course both of you consenting. The three major rules that should be applied are: Safe Sane Consensual Communication is paramount, trust comes more with experience. I would suggest a book called "Screw the Roses, Bring me the Thorns". It's both informative and lighthearted. It covers mild to wild. One scenario would be to order her to be a good girl for you and to lay still on the bed and tell her she is forbidden to have an orgasm until you give her permission. Then, work her into a frenzy, stop before she cums and perhaps scold her for disobeying. Offer to tie her hands down to help her stay still, when she fails offer to tie her legs... etc. Tell her that if she’s naughty and disobeys she'll get a real good spanking that she won't soon forget... Then, prove it to her.

Hmmm....let's see. You've got your wife stripped naked and tied to your bed. But you don't know what to do. You've taken her captive and she's totally helpless. Still no clue? Perhap's you should hire some guy off the street to show you the ropes (no pun intended). Heck, must guys would help you out for free. You might want to start by spanking her tight little butt. Then ravish her like there's no tomorrow!

tie her hands to the bedpost, give her a little lick on her privates then lick up to her breasts, suck and massage those for a while then ease into her thrusting until she screams with pleasure.

My fantasy is to tie my wife to an ottoman or a coffee table with wrists tied to ankles rope crossing under. I would then bring her to multiple "O"s until she can't stand it. After cumming in her mouth and kissing her to share the taste I would then treat her to a good fuck.

I Say go For it I would love to ask the same of my fiance but am too conservative. By asking you she is placing an extreme amount of trust in you and i recommend taking it slowly.

Most women love to feel 'trapped' at certain stages of sexual activity,bondage tastfully executed~provides that stimulant.Nothing severe.Just tie her wrists and upper arms behind her.If she starts to enjoy it,proceed to gag and blinfold her.Lift her legs and strap her thighs apart.Playfully tease her now.She ai'nt going anywhere till you've screwed her sensless. Take your time,make sure she's as comfortable as possible.Show her YOU are in control of her.If she's well titted out,make a noose for each one.Do it in stages,no rush.Identify HER limitations.It realy is a progressive subject for first timers. Let me know how you get on.

You're a very lucky man and there are some fine answers for you already. As a lifetime bondage enthusiast and practitioner as a rigger, I can tell you that there are two distinct areas to think about before you restrain your lady. First and foremost is safety...a safe word is good, if you use rope be mindful of tightness and circulation, be also mindful of breath-ability if you gag her, and don't leave her alone for a minute at this stage of your experience. The other area involves pleasure. There are lots of ways you can pleasure your bound lady; the trick is to keep your head in the game by not forgetting the safety aspects while focusing on her. Incidentally, I write short-stories with bondage sex for pleasure as the main theme if you need some ideas for scenarios and bondage techniques that I will be glad to share. Happy exploring.

In short, discuss it all before hand, safe words, limits, any kind of play you and she may want to do. As long as both of you know what your getting into then there is not going to be that much danger.

What's allowed and whats fun is, of course, up to her. Now that's she's asked you, it's your turn to ask a few questions, such as: How would she want to be tied? How tight? Hands in front, behind, or to the bedposts? And be sincere. LISTEN to her answers. Then, once you begin, pay close attention to her. DON'T ridicule or make fun of her. She's just shared something very intimate with you, and she trusts you. Don't betray that trust. Then, see where it goes.

As long as your wife consents to anything you do, it's ok. Just make sure you're safe.

dude...use cellophane...it's sooo much fun and my husband uses it on me alllll the time!!! Wrap her from shoulder to ankle and leave a hole for her pussy to fuck her!

It matters what she is thinking. Teasing is what she is asking for. You can do little things such as getting her started and then stop and slow down. What iv find is the most effect whether being tied up or not. Is to tease the person. And then stop and slow it down. Such as getting them almost to climax and then slowly stop and then teasing them more by biting on them or kissing them. Or putting your hands all over there body.

Rough. Penetrative. Anal. Sex.

I think you're the one that needs to be tied up. Your wife should arrange for a bodybuilder from the gym to "break in" when you're about to make love. He'll easily overpower you, tie you to the bed, and stuff a sock in your mouth. Then he'll turn his attention to your lovely wife. He grab her from behind, hook a muscular arm around her waist, and pin her wrists together with one hand. Then he'll use his other hand to feel her up and down. You'll notice her nipples grow erect and hard when he begins to spank her buns. It should be painfully obvious to you what she wants. All you'll be able to do is lay there humiliated and cry mummph, mummph!

i agree with "asking her what she desires. Also seek out some hints like here on on collarme or fetlife.

I can offer my recent experiance with my wife and would recommend to all couples. Firstly I had my wife to take a soak in the candle lit bath while I arranged the bed with canles, 2 silk ribbons, massage gel and her vibrator. After her bath I asked her to dress in sexy knickers a strapless bar and her faifourite sexy strapless dress, (this is so the clothes can just slip of her without untying her hands). Once dressed and standing by the bed I approched from behind and started kissing her neck and caressing her body for a couple of mins and gently unzipped the back of her dress. I then asked her to lie down on the bed, and gently tied her hands to the bed posts, once she was tied up I just sat on top of her and kissed her for a while this was a very sexual moment for both of us. I then started kissing her neck and shoulders and caressing her breasts, moving down to her legs I lifted her dress to show her knickers and kissed and carressed all over her legs and feet paying special attention to her inner thighs. By now she was very sexually aroused. I slowly pulled of her dress and contuned to kiss and caress her body, then the bra came off and I continued to kiss and caress nipples, by the time removed her knickers she seemed ready to climax, I gave her oral for several mins, I then gave her a break and massaged her body and intimate areas with massage gel and gently used the vibrator on her not to ruin the moment, she had several orgasms by now I could not resist any longer I took of my cloths and entered her, it was amazing, we will definately do it again. Just remember to make your woman feel special and thats its all about her.

i feel any thing is alowed as long as it dosent leave long lasting marks

it is quite fun but tie the legs down to cause i didnt and got a little to fast and pulled out to far and it went to the wrong place and got kicked accrost the room not fun so tie the legs or try to control what you are doing good luck and have fun

What is allowed is what she will allow. There is nothing taboo in this. Establish good communications,a code word (that really means STOP). Use soft restraints that don't cut off circulation. Respect her limits. I've found that cunnilingus can be explosively effective in this situation. Have fun!