verbal negativity or down talking to spouses or family

Arrogance, childishness, high tempers...

Jealousy, the sick and twisted kind. Then comes being overly cheap or stingy.

I would have to say arrogance, or someone acting like he is all that and a bag of chips. And obviously, lying, cheating and not being respectful to me.

Think of your stereotypical teenage jock boy. It's a combination of arrogance, blatant and open pervertedness, and a dim-witted lack of creativity.

I personally cant stand to be around a man who thinks he knows it all. One who tries to talk a big game but in reality is only making himself look stupid. My ex husband would be the perfect example of one of those know-it-all dumbass men.

Disrespect - to me or others.

Inability to vocalize feelings that they are uncomfortable with so problems can be mediated or worked upon. Inability to make admissions of guilt, say I'm sorry just to clear the air. Cutting off a finger would be an easier task.

rude things like get in the kitchen you b****

I have all of those, do I win something?

being cocky

Stalker types

Hairy armpits, I can't stand the sight of them. They make a man look dirty, and not attractive at all to me. Infact I don't let my husband go around without a shirt on at all, and the shirt must have sleeves on it NO tank tops allowed

The inability to be who they are and not who they think every woman wants. I am going to answer with what I like and you can take it from there. The ideal man for me... One that can be articulate in every aspect of life. One that can and will communicate through kind words. One that is not jealous of others but knows what he has. Alturism is important in a man, it shows his heart is in the right place. One that is well mannered but not pretentious. One that understands and sees when there is a problem without having to be told or reminded. He is funny and playful but strong. He is one that makes me feel safe and protected but at the same time respects my independance. Career minded and accepting of my career even if it is more desirable than his. Family oriented and spiritual, above all that loves and respects me as an equal no matter what! If not here it is in short Arrogance, disrespectful and uncaring are undesirable. For me if a man displays any or all of these behaviors with anyone I would not want to be with him. It is not how he treats me all the time, but how he treats humanity and life in general. After all they can only play it up for so long. But you can tell a lot about a person on how he treats the world around them. And this certainly applies to women also.

clinginess, or a posessive trait.

I can't stand when a boyfriend says other girls are hot. I'm not trying to say that I expect a guy to think I'm the only girl thats not but-ugly in the world (because there are a lot of beautiful women and I'm aware of it), I just don't want to hear what girls or celebrities he thinks are hot. I dont even care if they say it to other guys really, as long as I don't hear it. I don't want to become paranoid, and i have to admit i do a little sometimes.

Dishonesty.

I had an ex who talked about nothing but sex ALL THE TIME. Every single conversation had something to do with it. He told me thousands of times "you're so sexy", but never said that he felt love for me - which is one thing and that is fine, but he also never complimented me on much else, even to say that I'm pretty for example. Also, do I not have a heart, a soul and a mind? I would hope someone would want to be with me because of traits related to those parts of me, as opposed to just my sexual organs. In a close "second place" of what I find least attractive in men that isn't a physical trait, would be being repeatedly accusing me of cheating. I have never cheated on anyone ever, as I have more class than that. I had an ex many years ago who kept accusing me of having sex with other guys. What is so ridiculous is that we spent so much time together that I'm not sure when he thought I was going about this - I also was working two jobs at the time besides. He is pretty stupid if he can't recognize me for just not being like that. I've had other relationships where the guy liked me so much more because he could see that in me, yet this guy couldn't somehow. Fortunately that was a long time ago and I'm with someone wonderful now.:)

when a guy lies to me! I'm such an honest and loyal person that i cannot have a guy lie to me.

Bad hygeine and Arrogance

Arrogance and being Disrespectful.

Self-aggrandizement and contempt towards others.

Men who are unkind. I won't ever accept that.

An ex of mine embodies it: Telling people what he thinks they want to hear, rather than what he really feels. He'd tell me one thing and his sister (whom I didn't get along with) the opposite, whatever he thought we wanted to hear. It could be the piddliest little thing, like telling me he likes my mother's pet birds I was babysitting, and then when she's around muttering "damn birds" under his breath because she doesn't like pet birds. After a while I never knew what he actually thought about anything.

Manipulative control freaks aka (usually) ABUSIVE

Bad hygiene is definitely a no-no in my book. A Mr. Know-It-All isn't exactly attractive, either. But the one thing I canNOT stand is if he's on one level all of the time. I'm into intellects, so if he can't have a deep and meaningful conversation with me, chances aren't in his favor, lol

conceit and acting all macho

jealousy and controlling

Arrogance and thinking he's funny when he is NOT.

Whinyness. I can't stand a whiny man. I hate it in all people but especially in men.

Lazyness for sure. Most other bad traits can be sorted out through communication, but sheer lack of drive to get out of be and make something of your days is revolting.

Selfishness and unkindness

Hides the truth... doesn't necessarily lie, but he doesn't say what's going on either... Breaks up because he doesn't want to get you involved in his personal problems from his past when they come back... This junk just happened to me... and yes, I am crying over the keyboard...

Misers - I hate them!

e-g-o

Arrogance.

Not being honest and avoiding situations by not telling me, especially within their past.

men who whine.about anything, it drives me nuts for a man to whine about anything!!!grow up babies!!!

When they are disrespectful to others and when they seem to have no self confidence.

arrogance. I can't stand guys thinking they are better than everybody

When their too gushy when you dont even know them. 'i love you' when youve only just met. Too needy and clingy. Im miss independant, but i do want a man maybe thats where im going wrong? Also i hate the stalker types who call you non stop and ones that have NO conversation what so ever.

disrespect, possessive, controlling, abusive and last but not least the stalker type.

Arrogance. It can make a physically attractive man completely repulsive to me. It simply disgusts me. Closet misogynists disgust me as well

I cannot stand really controlling guys who won't let you talk or be friends with other guys and get jealous really easily.

pride to the point of cowardice

Disrespect to others and to themselves. THat usually comes from selfishness, asa they think too highlyof themselves and thus do not respect other people.

incoherence

Obsessiveness

Smoking of ANY kind Drug using Drinking (a glass of wine with dinner isn't "drinking") I jsut find those habits grossly unattractive.

I agree...arrogance.

Arrogance and jealousy.

Dishonesty and betrayal.

If he gets bullied by everyone, that sucks.

smoking is an immediate turn-off and arrogance or self-importance is a close second!

I hate when a man chews with his mouth open. It is so annoying to me. I could never marry a man who chews with his mouth open no matter how much I am in love with him.

Eye sight.

surliness - it is just one seriously horrible trait.

selfishness and being inconsiderate. i can't stand it when a guy puts himself first, then his friends, then his PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING BESIDES ME... then when he has time, or if he cares, maybe we can hang out. i want to at least seem [or preferably BE] important to them.

When they act like a wannabe rapper.

When men avoid you when they are with their friends. Thats a totally ass if you ask me. & when they burp in public or fart. totally embarrassing.

a pre-occupation with 'bum sex'

Men that think the women were born to be maids, even if they work a full time job. I have seen couples that both work and the woman still has to do everything around the house. Some of the old fashioned thinking guys need to wake up. Jimmy was great at shareing chores, and I also helped him with changing brakes etc. I just think if both work they should want to help each other.

guys who think all girls want to be friends with benefits. get a life. smoking, getting stupid drunk, all the time, acting llike women don't have sexual needs.

I hate when men try too hard to be macho.

When you first meet a guy and he wants to go out, but needs to bring his friends along (his "boys") and then expects you to come up with some "girls" to keep his boys company. SOOOOO irritating.

Lack of hygiene (lack of self-respect). Inflated ego. Poor sense of humor. Overly opinionated. Manipulative.

Spitting in public...ewwwww and ewwww again!

Misogyny. I can't stand it.

Cowardice. I can't stand it in women either.

Being stupid and lacking the drive to expand their mind.

Obviously checking out other women when on a date or in a public place, staring or making comments about another woman's body parts

When they think they're "god's" gift to the universe.

BRAGGING

Insecurity.

Not being able to acknowledge they are wrong or being able to say i am sorry

imaturity, I want a man who is grown up enough to deal with day to day life and the problems it throws in your path.

dishonesty.

Jealousy

I can't stand when they are full of pride. Guys don't need to tell us what they are good at. I like it when I find out myself because I will appreciate them alot more. If they tell me I just get turned off really easily.

Being pompous, cocky and self-centered.

Dishonesty

Being too critical or putting you down because of situations beyond your control, and making fun of you when you don't know much about sports or cars

a lack of intelligence

Dishonesty and a BIG EGO!! Not very attractive...

When they are whineyyyyyyy, oh god just shoot me now when that starts. I swear its worse then someone raking their nails down a chalk board to me when he starts whinning.

I know this is bad of me but I call it the "caveman syndrome". When I see a man holding an eating utensil "overhanded" and shoveling the food into his mouth with his arm raised from the shoulder out to his bent elbow, I just want to SCREAM!!! I swear if I could get my hands on the mother or father who TAUGHT him how to eat, I'd STRANGLE them!! It makes me nuts! Can you tell? LOL!!

Arrogance

No sense of humor...

The trait that I find the least attractive in men that isn't a physical trait is "the charmer." Not all men are charmers, and thank God for that. However, charmers are the most annoying. They make you fall and fall hard.. and for what? To benefit themselves. They lie and they steal and they manipulate and take advantage of you.. and what are you left with? Nothing. You can't help but forgive, forgive, forgive.. until you're so fallen into the trap that it's hard to get out. Sometimes charmers are so good that they end up being the only person you talk to and you have no one else to turn to.

He has to be extrememly respectful and patient

..I always find it amusing when women say they want a man that "can be articulate in every aspect of life. One that can and will communicate through kind words. One that is not jealous of others but knows what he has. Alturism is important in a man, it shows his heart is in the right place. One that is well mannered but not pretentious. One that understands and sees when there is a problem without having to be told or reminded. He is funny and playful but strong. He is one that makes me feel safe and protected but at the same time respects my independance. Career minded and accepting of my career even if it is more desirable than his. Family oriented and spiritual, above all that loves and respects me as an equal no matter what!" ...yet when they find it, they somehow magically wind up with someone else's dick in their mouth...one that could care less about them too.

sexism, self-centeredness, the inability to keep from running full tilt in any direction his "member" happens to "point" (I guess I should have just said..cheaters), deadbeats and bullies.

IF all they think about is sex sex sex. and everytime a good looking girl walks bye, all they can think about is their boobs,& when i talk to them, they always bring up me in bed with them or something. and thats all they talk about and thats all they're interested i it really irritates me.

their memory, or lack of having one. When it comes to birthdays or other important things they don't want to remember but they can rem what year babe ruth hit his first home run or what super bowl Elway won but can't rem their mom or wives birthdays or kids usually for that matter.

Okay the least physical trait of a man. Men always have some weird gross thing about them. Like ugh my bf always has lint in his belly button I am talking about a rug in there(SOOOO nasty). And another thing was my ex used to use Q-tips in his ears and smell the Q-tip SO NASTY. I knwo they are not physical traits but I think everyman in all of our lives has a NASTY physical trait of grossness.

If they don't carry themselves well, such as staying home all day not making anything out of themselves.

liar, everyone hates a liar

quick to be angered

The way they act when they get around there friends...its like when its just you and him all you see is the sensitive side of him but when they friends come around its a different story.

When the only plan they can make for an evening is "what ever you want dear"... grow a spine and some attitude.