ANSWERS: 6
  • Trust me on this: knowing things about exes will only make things worse, not better. In my experience, it always made me compare myself and our relationship to his old one and it caused a rift because I thought I could never keep up, or I thought he was thinking about her. Just stick to the present and forget about his ex. There's a reason he with you now and not with her.
  • its okay to ask but you really dont want to know...and NO it doesnt help
  • DON'T ASK! You will only get his side of it, so how will it help your relationship? Any past relationships should remain just that: past!
  • Sorry..I don't buy that for a minute. Why would you think grilling your partner about past relationships would do anything to help your current relationship with him? Why are you living in the past? What do you hope to find out? Would you like him talking about you to his next girlfriend (if there is a next) or would you prefer that he be a gentlemen and keep silent? :)
  • I'm like you Fruity, always want to know what they got up to so I can make sure our relatioship is better but it doesn't work like that. You'll end up getting jealous without even knowing. Its YOU and him now not him and her! And if he starts thinking its ok to talk about his ex's its going to get to a point where he thinks its normal and you'll get into arguments over it.
  • I think it's better to leave sleeping dogs lie. Perhaps the only exception is where there is something about the past relationship that has a bearing on the present eg. they are paying child support.

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