If you can wait long enough to deliver your baby let them know while you are in the hospital that you don't want to go back home with him but you have no where else to go. They usually can help somehow. They will know what programs you can go into to help you get child support and a job so that you can support yourself and your children.

Best way to go is to tell him to leave! if you have a child with him and another on the way then he should be man enough to pack his shit and leave. leaving you the house because your the one with the kids. wait out until your kid is born, congrats by the way, and file for divorce and child support, while that look for a job, there are some jobs that you can do from home, while the baby still needs you near, just remember hes an asshole, and soon he will be outta your life so you can be happy. just time is all you need right now.

take out a life insurance policy and then kill him

YOU can't take it anymore??? what about the kid in you??? You can't take it anymore??? Take it and live it...there are lot's of guys around there who are better than your "HE"... I may sound a bit harsh.. but then it's easy to be judgmental when it's "your" life....

Good advice from Jelly Belly. You may also consider some, if not all of my answer, here. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2772332 If he's not abusing you, PLEASE make sure that they know this, as when someone says they don't want to go home, this is probably the first thing others think about. In any case, you MUST consider the life your children will have if you stay. They will see that mommy and daddy don't get along, and will find some way to blame themselves for it (as soon as they are old enough to reason). It's much BETTER for them to understand that Mommy and Daddy could not live together any more. (NO need to tell them why... They may or may not find out about it at a future date - Somewhere in their teens or older.) All they need to KNOW is that both of you love them, support them, care for them, and always will. You MAY wish to call a local woman's shelter and tell them your situation. They may be able to help... After all, they have the resources, and I would think, would be much happier helping someone who is NOT being abused. You MAY have to go on welfare for a while, until you get on your feet. DO NOT be ashamed to do so. That's what it's SUPPOSED to be used for.

Could you try counseling? Is there any way to salvage the relationship? Cheating is a horrible thing, but it takes two to make a unhappy marriage, maybe there is something you both could work on to make it better.

Sweety, there is help out there, not because you are not working means you should put up with him. He's doing it because he thinks you can't leave him (because you are not working and you have kids) He feels that no matter what he does, you have no choice but to stay, so he will not stop.. However there is so much help out there for you. You can get government help and section eight for you and your kids until you find a job and get yourself together. When you leave him and become independent, he will beg you to come back.. right now he doesnt realize how much he needs you.. and if you do decide to leave NEVER look back... there is always better out there.. trust me I am talking from experience. If you go back with him he will NEVER change. Do it for you and your kids.