Me and my bf really want to have sex. But when finger myself I can only fit one finger in my vagina. It's the same when my boyfriend fingers me. My boyfriend has a pretty big penis. But if I can only get one finger in there, how is a penis going to fit?
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michellevallest
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It will fit. It will hurt for a second but it will fit. Use lube, go slow, and brace yourself.
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Everybody has a different experience and you don't give us enough details here. "Pretty big penis" might be average but seems big to you or he might be a giant. Are you a virgin? Have you tried relaxing and working in another finger? Do you feel pain with one finger? Two? Losing your virginity can hurt not at all or a lot. How old are you? How physically mature are you? Have you been to a gyno? If you haven't, you really should go before becoming sexually active. Good luck!
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it'll fit...it'll probably hurt for a little, but it'll fit...make sure you're ready...maybe add a little lube to make it go easier...
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try a lot of lube and take it slow, you know how elastic the male penis is? the vagina is even more flexible.
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Agostwriter said it right. Too many unknown factors for a lucid answer. And "pretty big" is a relative term. Bigger than your thumb? Ten and a half inches, and 3inches thick? But it's also possible (I'm assuming you're a virgin) that the obstruction is in fact your maidenhead (hymen, cherry). It's designed to be torn away with your first intercourse. With sufficient lubrication, slow gentleness, and a lot of patient skill, the pain should be very little. If he spends 20 minutes or so giving you oral sex before he enters you, you may be so aroused that you won't notice when your maidenhead is broken. If he does all that and it still hurts too much, a gynocologist can help. I've known of girls who had to have their maidenheads surgically cut open. Not every vagina is the same. Good luck
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if its big enough fo an infant to come out of, im sure a good sized dick would be easy pretty easy. Plus you gotta do it soon or later, so do it NOW!
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The vagina is a muscle. That's how the babies can come out when the vagina is pretty small. It can stretch. Try relaxing yourself. Get some kind of background music to relax yourself. The other answerers are right, get some lubrication or oral sex to help you. Anohter suggestion: open your legs a little wider. There are some sex positions that could help you.
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I had EXACTLY the same problem. My bf had the solution, we just laid off trying to have sex for a couple of weeks. Just keep on letting him finger you. Slowely work up to two fingers, then three etc... It will make the world of difference. And get you used to having something in your vagina. Make sure you're aroused too.
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We had the same issue. When me and my boyfriend started getting intimate it was the same thing. Let him finger you for a while and when you have sex for the first time, it will probably hurt. But don't worry, you grit your teeth and get through it and you keep doing it. Me it was about the third time that the pain was completely gone. The more you have sex, the more you'll stretch. Make sure you get enough fourplay before actually having sex. It'll be much easier on you.
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LUBE! l0l. & someone said something about lettin them stick in 3 fingers? l0l i wont even fit 3. (and no im not a virgin) but remember just cause hes big dont mean that after yall have sex ull be loose. cus ur u kno wat shrinks bak down to normal size l0l
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my boyfriend have 9 inch hard penis first time when i lose my virginity just start from foreply use petroleum jelly my b/f use condom and when i leak thik water from my vagina then he insert slowly his hard penis i enjoying after comletion of sex play (duration around 50 mint.) i seen bleeding to much but he says its ok don't worry and do this work as me if you wants some other information write me
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first of all when you are getting intimate DON'T THINK ABOUT HOW ITS GOING TO FIT! If you do so you won't really enjoy the foreplay that you will be doing and when it comes down to having sex your muscles will tighten and tense up and you'll end up feeling pain. just relax and enjoy the pre-warm up, start with one finger and when thats comfortable just try two and so on and so on until you fell comfortable enough to let him penetrate you. but tell him to push in it a little a a time and eventually you'll be able to take it. trust me when i first had sex thats what we did. good luck
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Just keep in mind that a penis is better designed to fit inside you than any number of fingers. I think your only problem is that both of you are a little nervous and that causes you to be tense and without meaning to, you tighten up your vaginal muscles. With you lying flat, knees spread, and him on top, relax and just hug him while he does the work of getting full penetration. The second time will be much better and by the tenth time it will be fantastic,,, if he learns to take his time and not be in such a big rush. Guys have a hard time with that little detail but you can keep reminding him.
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