ANSWERS: 41
  • hell no, i would be out!!!! hes just showing you what to expect in the future with him
  • unfortunatly no...i've dealt with cheating far too much to forgive...especially when it's that early into the relationship
  • Well obviously he doesn't have much love for you. If he cheats on you once, what makes you think he won't again? Personally I wouldn't forgive him. I would dump him and find someone else worth to date. Someone who deserves my love and vise versa.
  • Well, after only one week of dating, did you have an agreement to be exclusive with each other? If not, then technically, I do not consider it cheating. Bad taste, inconsiderate and sleazy, but not cheating. Sorry.
  • Probably. I would just cool because i would just have to accept that he doesn't like me. But it would still break my heart if that's what you're talking about.
  • Only if you are not going to enter into a big relationship. have your fun, sounds like he'll have his and then you can move on. Don't deprive yourself if you've waited for this, but don't expect him to be "the one" - he ain't!
  • If I'd been waiting so long for something/someone, it would somehow make it even harder to accept, much less forgive. ps Not sure, did you mean that you had been waiting so long for a r/ship? Or did you and this guy already know each other before you started dating?
  • Well...casual dating, or being a couple? If it were casual dating, it would depend on what they did. I wouldn't continue to see them if they were sleeping with someone else and going on dates with me. If we'd reached before and girlfriend status and they even went out on a date with someone, then it's over. I could only forgive someone if I had a lot of feelings and time and plans invested in them, and someone I've been with only a week is not worth the aggravation.
  • Probably not. That's one thing that I just refuse to deal with. I would cut my losses and consider myself lucky that it happened sooner rather then later.
  • No not after dating him for just 1 week. It is hard enough to forgive someone you really love and that you have been with along time. You are wasting your time. If he cheated that soon after you started dating- more than likely-it will happen again.
  • no dont forgive him because thats wat happened between me and my boyfriend his girl cheated so he hooked up with me about 2 days later, then he forgave her and forgot about me leave him go cause if he does it once and u forgive him hell know if he does it agian ull forgive him again
  • Not a chance in hell.
  • If it's only been a week, there is nothing to forgive. He isn't yours exclusively yet, is he? It would be nice if he focuses on one person at a time, but since there is no engagement and no agreements between the two of you, I don't see it as being cheating. Hurting yes, as I'm sure it does. And for that he should apologize.
  • Years ago I would have! Not now; if he isn't pleased with what I have to offer then I need to find someone who is!!!
  • The best predictor of future performance is past performance. Buyer beware.
  • I'd forgive him; I wouldn't stay with him. If after just one week he's already lost satisfaction, he isn't ready to commit.
  • yeah i think as you've only been going out a week he deseaves a second chance.
  • sure i guess.
  • no, he doesnt care enough about you to not mess with another girl... a week and he is already cheatin??? throw in the towel...
  • Sure, but keep your senses sharp. More than once means he thinks you're a fool yo...
  • No..well thats not true, if he apologized, I would forgive him, but I would not be around for him to cheat on again :)
  • Not if it was understood you two were exculsive. I have had relationships that weren't, and we both did our thing. It hurt, but he wasn't "mine". Now, if anyone I was in a serious relationship did that, if after a week or 15 years, I'd pack it up. Life's too short to put up with being unhappy.
  • There is no excuse for cheating - none. Ditch the sleeze ball as soon as you can.
  • Yes forgive him but drop him like a bad habit, which apparently, he is.
  • NOPE! This is the best part of the relationship where everything is new and exciting. The last thing on his mind should be finding someone new!!
  • My first response would be, "God NO!" But I guess it would depend on the circumstances. You know, sometimes you really do have to ask yourelf, "Am I better off with or without him?" If he's giving you this kind of stress after a week (and as someone pointed out, this is supposed to be the GOOD part of the relationship) I'd be thinking hard (no pun intended) on what you could possibly gain from this relationship.
  • hell no
  • If you were exclusive then yes I would forgive him and then I would forget him. If you weren't exclusive then you have nothign to complain about.
  • Trust me you dont know anything about this guy in just a week. hell he could be putting on a mask right now. And if you need relationship advice already, god help you down the road! this is supposed to be the bomb part of the dating game. I dont consider a week with anyone a relationship. i call it dating. than again me and my hubby went and took pix after just 5 days together we had church bells in the background. honey you will know if the guy is right and you will trust him with everything. ON THE OTHER HAND ..... you could play the game, hook up with another guy and see how he feels about that. Thats when he will show his true feelings.Hope this helps!
  • Hell no. That is completely unforgivable. If he's acting this way already then he thinks you are a complete pushover and definitely isn't worth your time.
  • Well, if you guys have established an exclusive, serious relationship (meaning you don't see other people), then of course not. But, having only dated a week, is there a chance that you're taking the relationship more seriously than he is? I mean, obviously you are (because you're being faithful and he isn't), but I guess what I mean is, does he know what your expectations are?
  • no i wouldnt forgive him but if i did i sure as hell wouldnt forget
  • Forgive him or not, what kind of a question is this? The guy has shown you a level of being a child and wanting to play childrens games with you. If you are OK with that, then keep him hanging on. Otherwise, get rid of him....he is just a child.
  • yes i would, plenty of time to get him hooked!
  • ok i already answered this, but there is a quote that helped me in a somewhat similar situation. "you deserve what you tolerate"
  • Well if it was me...I wouldn definitely not forgive him. If he can't keep it in his pants for a week then I can find someone better! It all depends on what you think you are worth.
  • Yeah, if I was a desperate loser or if I didn't care if he saw anyone else. It seems like you care since you feel the need to consider forgiving him, so what does that make you? Just saying.....you barely know him and he's already looking for another.
  • yeah because after a week there isnt anything solid there to be upset about. if i started dating someone and within a few days met someone else i wouldn't have a problem with going out on a date to see if I liked that person better.
  • I don't think that I'd commit to someone after one week of dating.So...he is free to see anyone he wants.Unless you slept with him.In that case,I would stop having sex with him until you have a real commitment from him and he is not exposing you to STDs.
  • no because it was all false. once will always become twice
  • I guess you could but do you really like getting screwed over.

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