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  • No your not. Relationship are give and take and you both need to be willing to move some things around and make some sacrifices. If he rly wants to see you that bad and wants to talk to you...he'll make a genuine effort and take the intiative. He texts, and that's great. But many guys who just do that aren't very serious, I warn you. Nothing beats a good verbal conversation. It's imporatant. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you feel he's not doing enough. Your not keeping record...but it's an obvious unequality on his end. So ask if he would be willing to make some sacrifices. And say that you like the intimacy of a real phone conversation. If he blows it off and doesn't take it seriously...then that tell you something. He'll prolly just play games and it wont' last. Voice your needs and hope he meets you halfway. If not, your better off without him.
  • I have just had the exact same problem with my now ex-boyfriend. I only saw him once a week and it was always on his terms,I always came bottom of his priorities. He did have a busy schedule but we agreed to see each other when we were free. I confronted him numerous times over what i thought were excuses and he finally admitted he did not want a serious relationship right now but wanted to be with me casually (not just for sex). It was so hard but I finished it because I wasn't happy with this and cried most days over something or another while i was with him. I stil cry most days now we've finished(haha)but I know that will be short term compared to how unhappy I would have been if I'd stayed with him. He was the same, only text me for a bit before we went to sleep each night as he did not "feel the need" to speak to me every day. Not all relationships are like this and i know so many couples who cannot get enough of each other. I don't know about you but this is what I'm aiming for in a boyfriend. Some ood words of advice that I had to listen to myself- "he's just not that into you" if he was he'd rearrange things to see you just as you do. Good Luck
  • It sounds like you like him more than he likes you. Unless he changes this attitude soon, I'll bet that there is someone out there looking to meet you that will make you a lot happier than this guy will.
  • It sounds like you two are not compatible as far as the amount of interaction each of you prefers.

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