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Afraid you can't, you'll have to go through a divorce to do that.
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If there is ANY hope of reconciliation, work on that. Ask about marriage counseling. If he is suggesting you leave the house; DON'T unless you are in physical danger (if he gets abusive). I hate to say this, but when it comes to assets, you need to set up camp and stand your ground. DO NOT MOVE OUT until you consult a lawyer. The laws about who will ultimately get the house or it's worth as an asset will be decided upon your state laws and who has been paying what and how long you have been married, how long in the house, who has the kids and, in some cases, who initiated the divorce. Please, for the well being of yourself and your kids, consult an attorney as soon as possible - an attorney who is experienced in divorce. It doesn't mean you have to be the one to file, it doesn't mean you can't recocile, but protect yourself - because it is obvious your husband is not going to have your best interests at heart.
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For the sake of your children, seek advice from a third party, like a counsellor or social worker. Your husband is an abuser and the motto of abusers is "Isolate the victim". He is isolating you and your children via his silence. Find support, talk to your friends. If you discuss this issue with other people you won't feel so alone and helpless. You've taken a brave step, asking your question here on AB. You have the courage to change this situation. There are many in your local area who can help you, it's just a matter of finding them. Start now, don't put it off or hope that it will go away. It won't. Surround yourself with supportive people and you will be surprised how quickly your husband's attitude will change. Sending you love and (((hugs))) {(~_~)}
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If you and your children are not in danger, let your husband know that you will not be leaving the residence. It is his decision to end the relationship and it is he who should have the decency to leave. Separation is traumatic enough for children as it is, without having the additional upset of having to re-locate. I think you should seek legal advice as soon as possible (((hugs)))
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Sorry dear but this does not look promising. I believe the time for counseling is over and done with. Please understand he is trashing you, ignores you and wants you to leave then I would ask: Are you his house help? You need a good lawyer, don't leave nor talk to your husband let the lawyer do his work. Don't accept meetings with your husband and the lawyer, you talk to your lawyer and let him represent you in whatever is related to your husband. If he dares to lay a finger on you or the kids, call the police and your lawyer. Let your lawyer take it from there, perhaps a restraining order would be the best if this is the case, but again it is the lawyer's job to do this. Don't forget to sue for legal expenses & good child support according to his income, don't let him get off that easy. This will assure you to correctly provide for the children. Once you have decided what to do and if it ends up in divorce, make sure you understand you are not to get into a new relationship until your healing time has passed and don't forget the legal issues on this matter. Take care and regards.
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god you sound like me how long you been with him xx
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