Just tried it this weekend - at least the underwear. My gf found it very hot, whereas I found it a bit unusual. It is fun to try something different - and I suggest that you try it. A lot, I guess, will depend on how you view sex and women. I won't lie, there is something exciting about it. Suddenly my gf was very much in charge and I was submitting to her. It was great, but I like to see myself in very much a dominant role, and that is hard to do when you are wearing a bra and panties. (In my case is was a white bra and panties with a flower print, with suspenders and sheer white stocking. NOT what I would wear to the gym, that;s for sure.) You asked if it is NORMAL. Weeellllll, normal ends up being a loaded word. Would you enjoy it? In my case I wasn't sure, but I like to please my gf and she wanted to try it. Sometimes you do things not because YOU would enjoy them, but because SHE will enjoy them. Without knowing you it is hard to answer the first question - but your gf is answering the second question. She wants the chance to see you in a more sexually submissive role - so give it a try. If you care about each other - and you don't enjoy it - you can always say "no" in the future. For me, it was not something that really turned me on, but I did not dislike it enough where I would tell my gf flat out "no" in the future. Tell me the mood and the moment, and I'll be able to tell you what I would say to her. I do know that for the rest of the weekend, we felt closer - but she was more submissive to me and seemed to make a special effort to please me. We care about each other and she understood that I was making an effort for her - and that mattered to her. On balance, I was not unhappy. Take it form the voice of RECENT experience.