• First of all, let's find out what the basic problem is. What do you mean when you say you are "a bit different"? In what way are you "different"? It would be easier for people to help you if they knew what you meant by that.
    • Laura Kalessi
      I am different in the way that I don't really know how to express my self or actually understand basic stuff.. that goes with the psycological problems i mentioned I have. Basically I don't know how to communicate with people of my age.. D:
    • OC Joe
      Basic form of communications is to ask questions about the person to whom you are talking. Find things in which they have a special interest and ask all about that topic (people, by far, like talking about themselves most). Also respond to questions about yourself but try and focus most of the conversation more on the other person and clearly show interest. People who show no interest in other people are geberally self centered and a poor choice for a friend. If you need to make changes in yourself to become a better choice for a friend then understand those changes are very likely very difficult but CAN be done in time. More importantly, take that very seriously and work at it. Joining clubs at school or become involved with groups is an old but tried and true method to make friends and become part of groups.
  • Change what you can, and accept what you cannot.

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