Im a shy guy that gets nervous when i don't know wat to say. i want to ask this girl out and i need ur help on wat i should say. any help would be greatly appreciated !!!
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ryan
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You sound very distressed mate, cool it. May i suggest you drink a little something before attempting to talk to your girl ('cos confidence is an issue, unfortunately). Make sur she's alone when you ask her, look her in the eye and whisper your request in her ear, or just slip her a note, smile, and walk away. Good luck.
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are you guys already hanging out with each other? i mean with same friends? or already know each other for some time? if your answer is yes then just ask her politely like "hey, wanna chill out some time with me?" but if not then i suggest to make friends with her first :)and knows what excite her maybe that might help on how you will approach her to go out :)
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You asked this question in May. What happened? In my humble opinion, you had some lousy advice. Still open for suggestions (not advice)?
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Depends where you meet the person. Just try saying hi and introduce yourself. So a little self confidence and humor.
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dont go for pick up lines lol ok but yea good sense of humor and just be yourself..that always works =)
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Be yourself and start with "Hi"! Don't act shy when you're talking to her because she will think you're not interested. Give her your attention and talk to her like you're friends...take the whole 'I like you' part out of the equation. It will make things easier and make you less uncomfortable. When you go to actually ask her out, don't be super blunt about it, hint around at first then say something like 'hey, we should....bla bla bla.' As long as you be yourself, you'll be fine.
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couple of things How do you know this girl? 1) If you have commong friends, have them help you out. Introduce you to her. 2) If you don't really know this girl, just be honest, you are man and by biology, there is nothing wrong with asking a girl out, just be like "Hey, I don't really know you, but I have seen you around and I like to know if there is more to you than just looks. I dont usually do this...why don't we exchange contact information and I will call you this week, and I promise nothing but good conversation" but if you are not comfortable with saying that, then dont say it, modify it to fit you. its really not that hard, she will say yes or no. eaither way, life will go on and you have millions of other girls to pick from.
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Despite what the outcome was, here's advice from another shy guy. 1. If you approach her in person, make sure she is alone and you are alone. 1 on 1 is your best bet. 2. If you're too shy to approach her in person, than there isn't really a great alternative. Maybe you can give one of her friends a note to give to her asking her out. Even AIM isn't such a terrible way to ask. But, DO NOT ask via Facebook messaging or email. Make sure it's something in real time if not in person! Good luck, I'm having a similar issue now and I'm soo nervous to ask in person, but you know what? Trying to ask her in person takes a lot of cojones. Asking her via email/Facebook messaging is LAME. And the note thing is somewhere in the middle.
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