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  • no, he is only trying to get out of child support... keep him out... he WILL cheat again, and he WILL break your heart again and DESTROY your child's life... i'm a child of a family where my father left me b4 i was born, and my sisters just left her... i'm better off... trust me, you're better off without him.
  • Yes, but remember this "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me" Just watch him closely... As soon as you see him at his evil ways again, kick his a** out on the street (Hypothetically Speaking)
  • You have more than yourself to worry about - you have you (a person who deserves to be treated wonderfully) and your baby (another person who deserves the same treatment). Don't be too forgiving and don't feel like you have to be "nice" - fuck nice, you have to take care of yourself. It sounds like you'd be better off without him manipulating you, but if you take him back I agree with westoncampbell's advice: don't forgive him a second time. You just can't afford it.
  • I know i have made this statement at least 20 times, since answering questions on answerbag. so here goes number 21. Once a cheater, always a cheater. what made him change his mind now? this is your life and your decision. i can tell you from a lot of experience in this area, that he will take off again and the cycle will again be repeated. If he is really sincere about returning and staying, make him prove it and marry you. this will show his true colors.
  • Do what is best for the baby, that is your most important person in your life now. You're worth more than a doormat and no man should be treating any woman like a doormat. Good health to you and the baby.
  • Wwhat he did was wrong but whether or not you forgive him has no bearing on his part with your child. He is the father regardless if he cheated or not and he must have a part in that baby's life once he/she is born. Whatever you decide to do as a couple is totaly separater from what you should do as parents.
  • tell him to hit the road...not only was that cheating on your but also on your unborn baby! if he really felt that he needed both of you in his life he wouldnt have done it to begin with...he obviously is only thinking of himself and not you and the beautiful baby you have...I am also 23weeks pregnant and have made it clear from day 1 that we found out...if he cheats on me he cheats on the baby and doesnt deserve that gift! my heart too would be broken but i know it would be for the best. Children need healthy homes to come into and a good father to look up to...no one wants their child to grow up and think its ok to cheat on their partner...pregnancy is a time for love and support, and he is not loving nor supportive.
  • no way!!! it will become a cycel where he's always asking you to forgive him for this or that...your pregnant and need support and love...he is giving you neither...knowing that you were pregnant and he still went and cheated on you is crap! Iam also 23weeks pregnant and made it clear from day 1 that we found out...if he cheated on me he cheated on our baby and doesnt deserve that gift! Thats a huge unneeded stress on you that can be damaging to the baby and also could lead to other problems, like infections from the other person. You have a beautiful gift that doesnt deserve somone like that!
  • That's a call only you can make. And don't do it too soon. Trust will have to be regained and it takes a long time. If he is sincere, he will agree to take time to prove himself to you. If you do get back together, use a condom at all times for your sake and especially for the unborn baby's sake - if he picked up something from his 'someone else', you surely don't want a vulnerable newborn exposed to it.
  • I don't want to be harsh but if you stay with this guy...it will be a bad foundation for the life of you and your child. I would hate to see him get away with what he did as well.
  • If you do,be pepared to be broken again. TRUST ME!
  • DNT U DEAR FORGIVE HIM ..... that baby is ur main priority and he cheated on not just u but ur baby that is no acceptable i no its easier sed than done but he cheated on that poor baby i wudnt even bother with him play hard o get if u want him back

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