My girl frend loves me but i dont completly love her i dont want to upset her but i want to brake up what should i do?
by 
bubs597
ANSWERS: 9
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Break up! the sooner the better.
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If you don't feel the same way she does, you need to tell her ... don't lead her on. It's not easy or fun to do that, but in the long run, it's much kinder. Good Luck.
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If she loves you, it will upset her, there's no way around it. Gather the courage, be honest and calm when talking to her.
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If she loves you, then it's impossible to break up with her without hurting her. Unfortunately that happens a lot, and I honestly believe it will probably be just as hard for you as it will be for her. I commend you for caring that much about her to be worried about her pain. It's not fair to either of you if you stay together. You're leading her on by staying with her while you don't love her... and you're wasting both yours and her time. The right thing to do is usually the hardest, but I think you should end it. It's going to be rough, but in the end it will work out, it always does.
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If you think you can eventualy love her then tell her that you dont just throw those words around and that you want her to know that when you do say them you truly do mean them. Cause you know how some ppl are, they will say it even when they dont mean it. How long have you been dating for though?
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Break up.
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Tell her the truth. Say you aren't being fair to her by not being able to give her what she fully wants and needs. Break up.
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you should tell her that i dont think we work out but we can be friends
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Don't string her along and let her know that you would like out of this marriage.
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