for some it may be a power trip, and for some of us, it is a different sensation, a different intimacy

Yes. Sometimes it's a power trip. Remember that there are gay guys. Anal tends to be a bit...cozier.

Ive never tried Anal with my wife, i guess i would only want to do it if it didn't hurt her and provided her with a pleasurable experience. Not into inflicting pain on someone so that i can have a story to tell my buddies.

Yes, definitely. Ass is much tighter than pussy most of the time. I love it.

let's try it and see?

I suppose it depends on the person, but in my experience, the ass is much tighter. It takes real patience to get in and REAL patience to do so without hurting your mate. There are two sphincters. Lots of guys make the mistake of thrusting all the way in after they feel their cock head pass the first one. Don't do that. But once inside, it is glorious. The tightness feels exquisite as you move. Another cool thing about anal is that lots of women (I have read surveys that say more than 50%) cannot orgasm thorough vaginal penetration alone. Unless the couple is perfectly matched or the woman's labia happen to pull across her clit during penetration, she may enjoy the fuck but be left wanting more after her man has already gone off and dozed off. In the missionary position, it's pretty hard to get your hand in there and provide a little help to the to the man in the boat. Doggie style provides hand access, but it can be hard to maintain deep penetration in that position because her vagina is too far forward. We aren't built like canines. But anal puts the entry right where it needs to be and leaves her clit exposed for some nice finger action while you stroke. I think anal would have a lot more fans if more people knew how to do it right. But one raging rover pounding into her, and a woman will NEVER want to try it again. Lots of lubrication, and SHE controls everything about the penetration and speed till she indicates she's comfortable with the size and fullness, and ready for pounding.

Well this is a question I'd never thought I'd answer the ex liked this I had never done it before, she bleed a little. She didn't ask me to do it again.

Absolutely. The asshole is most often much tighter, all the way up. The pussy is wetter which means I feel more friction when she lets me in the backdoor. Aside from that, I'f we're doing anal in doggie, she can slide a vibrator in her pussy and buzz the bottom of my shaft and balls as I thrust. Anal is a wonderful treat. Like many treats though, the magic can wear off if you do it too much. Once in a while is great for both of us.

A good way to get a vaginal infection.