Its because you felt like it was right, but you know it hurt them. Since you were so close, it hurt you to. Since you 2 bonded.

It feels bad because we are used to the persona nd feel comfortable around him/her. Its like you get out of your safe spot and you cant come back, you have to start feeling secure on your own, because somewhere deep inside you did this for your sack!

Because it's not easy for either side, you know that you hurt the other person. You could feel guilt, like you're abandoning someone, but know in your heart it's not right to stay together.

It's not easy coming to terms with knowing a relationship is never going to be the one you had hoped it to be and regardless of who does the breaking .. the sense of loss or guilt will remain present until positive thoughts and actions take over and see you both smiling again.

beacue even if you know its the right thing you still have feelings for them!

Just cause they aren't good for you or just not right for you doesn't chnage the fact that you do love them and that you are emotionaly invested in that person, you are loosing some one in your life. and rarely do your heart and head agree on much of anything.

YOU STILL HAVE MIXED FEELINGS ABOUT THEM

Yes, it's relatively normal unless it was a valotile breakup between to angry people. But it's normal to feel bad when you hurt someones feelings.

It depends on the reasons for the break up. Most of the times, I'm just thrilled to have got rid of the psycho

well dude...it would be human nature to feel bad when you break up with someone...but i guess if you have been with them for like a day or somethin, it wouldnt be so bad, but for like a month or a year, man it kinda hurts..especially if your not the one who thinks its a good idea to break up, for example if you notice things arnt like they used to be and you know that she is hurting from it, and like i said before, its not you who wants to end it but if its for her... sorry, thought i would just throw that in there.

Depends on why you broke up. Sometimes it's a relief sometimes it horrible. Other times its secretly what you hoped would happen because you knew it was dead anyway.

Sure if you really care for them

i dont feel bad when i break up with some one all the boys i broke up with i did want them becuae i lost interst in them

I've only broken up with a guy once. It was painful. Why? I knew I really loved him, but I felt like he didn't care about me at all. I felt like the break up was necessary because I honestly felt like he didn't like me as much as he said he did. It was really hard. I'm back with him now, though, and have been for over a year. Do I regret taking him back? No, not really. He is an amazing boyfriend, although there are those who would disagree.

She did the breaking but yes I do not think I could feel any worse.

That depends. I was once involved in a relationship I couldn't wait to get out of it. And when I finally did, I felt a sense of a huge load lifted off my shoulders.

Of course especially if I care about them :)

Like death has visited my house usually the ex's new boyfriend is on a vision quest to kick my butt.

Yeah I always feel guilty about it but you gotta be strong otherwise you'd end up getting back together with them for all the wrong reasons!

not really. to some extent yes but when i think about it i'd much rather be out of a situation than being in a relationship that's making us both feel awful. if it's mutual then i feel no guilt whatsoever

no sometimes it's a HUGE relief.

My last girlfriend, yes. She is actually what brought me to AB. I was going to break up with her, and couldn't think of a way because I felt so bad about it. Other girlfriends, no. It's always been difficult, but I always felt good about it.

Yes it does make me feel bad because I don't like hurting anybody.

Not as bad as when I don't break up with them

no. the only relationship ive ever ended has been because he cheated, or was just using me for sex, so, no guilt there! i have ended a relationship and been very hurt by the reason i had to end it.

Yeah definatly. The other day someone started to hint that he liked me and i had to tell him i didnt feel the same way and that made me feel terrible, and thats not even breaking up with them!

Yes..very very very much!

Not when its for the right reasons. And what better reasons do we need when we dun feel right...right? ;)

I never broke with anybody. They all dumped me.

Actually, I am single virgin. However, when I heard some news of break-up I makes me feel bad for so much time, and I start to have sympathy with the women. However,when I heard the news of same thing appearing with men, I don't take it much seriously

Of course u don't feel good or better!!! It s a very bad feeling and i hate it!!! U feel like u loosing the part of your mind, body, soul, because u shared w him all those things!!!!!!!!!!!

I didn't used to feel bad as my relationships when i was younger were only a few weeks or a couple of months old. But now I've had longer relationships and yes I do feel bad. If I've broken the relationship it was for very good reasons but at the time it was awful because you spend so much time with that person then suddenly they are not in your life. At the time I missed them dearly but kept reminding myself it was for the right reasons. When my current partner finished me earlier this yr I was devastated but he had his reasons at the time and I understood. It actually worked out better for me at that time; we got back together in the summer and we're better than ever now.

Nope since I know I am make the right choice.

It hurts me deeply every time. Even if he hurt me first, I still feel like I have an empty place in me that shouldn't be there. It makes me feel like I have done something wrong and have failed.

Not as bad as I feel when they have dumped me!

I've been through one divorce and believe me it wasn't fun. When what you call my world crumbled into nothing but divorce papers getting up the next day and going on wasn't easy but I remarried and now have a family that I can't live without.

Not when they make the decision for me. I broke up with someone who cheated on me, then spread rumors (something fit for Degrassi). I wanted to die. I wanted to kill myself. He made me feel like I was the one who was wrong. I got over that... got rid of the skewed perspective, and realized it was the best decision I could have ever mad. The immediate feelings of any decision are usually overwhelming, and emotional, and one often finds themselves second-guessing the same decisions they took so long to make... Don't. Trust your instincts. Don't overthink it.

it dependss why did we breakup

Not really. I get over it after a short while.

I am in the middle of breaking up with my boyfriend of 2+years and it is difficult, because I love him and I know he love me, and he still wants us to stay together, but I am breaking up with him because I do not feel I can totally trust him. I have never caught him cheating on me, but my instincts tell me that something is not right and the sad thing is my instincts have been telling me this for a long time. When we first met and started dating we had a very strong connection. The chemistry between us was off the charts. But as time past, I have noticed he lies to other people, he has come up with stories when I ask about his whereabouts on the nights I do not hear from him or he doesnt answer his cell. He is with me most of the time, but it is the few times a week that he isnt, that I don't know exactly what he has been doing. I know he drinks a lot, maybe out at bars, strip-bars till wee hours of the morning, or maybe he has cheated on me. I will never really know. He has asked me to marry him several times and I have not accepted, hoping I would see a change in him, but still have not to this day and he,on the other hand, gets upset that I havent agreed to marry him, even though I told him I would be willing to grow old with him. I guess the moral of the story is, if you feel something doesn't seem right, it is best to break up sooner than later, because it only gets harder, the more you become involved. As they say, if you can't trust him now, you won't be able to trust him a year from now.