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  • Give her some space.
  • By 'girlfriend' i'm assuming 'friend that's a girl'? Anyway - are you sure it's a "just friends" thing? Cause if you've said how you feel... put it all out there... and she said "just friends", you're gonna have to deal. You can stay as just friends, be the great friend and nice person you are with her (although it'd be SUPER hard), or you can tell her you need some space and time apart - try to drop some feelings. Unless you're willing to stick through the agonizing torture of being in the 'friend zone' with hope that maybe things will change.
  • If you are in that zone and having relations with her it sounds like you guys might be marriage material. If you are talking about a girl that is just a friend, then I'd either make the move to become more than friends or go get some male friends. In my opinion men don't really need female "friends" and should have more guy friends and girls to date. Keeping that distinction clarifies things much better without blurring the lines.

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