Well if it anything can you make some money off of, have a yard sell and sell it if not throw it away. When they divorced that should have been settled in the divorce if she hasn't gotten it in 3 yrs it must be stuff that she doesn't want.

i would get rid of it if you all have been cllin her and she still havent come got it yet

My ex-wife still has a few things (mostly pictures) in our home, too. We've been divorced for 12 years. I will not get rid of them, because, if nothing else, they are history of HER family for our boys. I will also not get rid of them, because now and then she mentions that she needs to get them, but with two full-time jobs, caring for other members of HER family, etc., can never find the time to stop by. (We'd have to dig them out.) AND, she lost her high-school yearbooks and a few other things (I lost a coin collection and other expensive stuff at the same time) by them being stored in the basement of a house we had, and those few boxes forgotten when we moved. By the time we got back to the basement, they were gone... Probably tossed, but who knows?) Besides, we parted amicably, and what SHE has takes up so little space here... If it's furniture (or something else taking a LOT of room), give her the ultimatum that she has to get it in, say, two weeks, or it's going to be donated to Goodwill. If she CAN'T (good excuse only!) then the time can be extended another week. But tell her that the stuff needs to be out by a month. If you have contact with her, write up a contract with the times, and have her sign it. THEN, if it's STILL there, it will be up to you and you boyfriend, and how nasty you want to be. (I'd consider taking it over to her place, even if it's a small apartment.)

You have kept it long enough to satisfy the courts, now do with it what you want.

Easy bring it to her and leave it with her. Have a friend as a witness or she can say yuo never gave it to her and despite what you think this could turn out to a he said she said and she could say he offered to hold on to it as long as she needs. Then you might get stuck with replacement cost.