Do you think its OK to call your pregnant fiance names like butterball, my fat fiance, and to say things to people like she better look like she did when these babies are born or im gone!
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SLAP HIS FACE!
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Ummmm. It's a good way to get out of a relationship...
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I think that this is a totally disgusting and unacceptable way to speak to a woman
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I think it's terrible to call a pregnant person those names! When you're pregnant, you already feel strange and it's very uncomfortable. She needs positive comments and lots of TLC! Only an insensitive jerk would call a pregnant lady butterball and fat!
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No. My first hubby said crap like that, my self esteem plummeted....until I realized what an ass he was/is.
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No way. It's making fun of someone who is heavy and ungainly through no fault of their own. If fact, it's partly his fault because it takes two to become pg. Everyone knows that pregnancy and child birth always changes a woman's body and it doesn't always go back to the way it was before.
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Absolutely not. That's mean and uncalled for.
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Nope, if my husband did that to me I would be planning two things, for the babies to be born and a divorce. :o)
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no women are sensetive about their weight, espically pregnant ones.
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Yes, yes, absolutely fine....... if he's a dickhead!
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NO ONE should ever call a pregnant chick fat!!!!! WHAT IS HE THINKING!!!!!!! that guy is just down right mean!!!!! hes like my brother, i would like beat the shit out of him
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I'm pregnant and my bpyfriend has never said things like that to me. If you man is talking to you like that that is emotional abuse and you might want to find a better one.
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NO WAY! thats the mother to your child! why would you disrespect her like that? She's carrying your child and to make her feel fat is mean of you! If you say that she better look like she did before the babies then you better take care of the babies while she takes care of herself and concentrates on getting into shape. If you are not willing to help her then you have no business opening your mouth and saying such cruel things to her! If my girlfriend calls me names and says things like that to me I would be furious with her! I would tell her that she should have carried the baby if she was so concerned!
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Do you really not know the answer to this question? NO it is not OK!!! Kick his ass to the curb and take him for all the cild support you can get.
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no, of course its not ok. its just another abusive form of control. He is trying to intimidate you into not having any physical chnage due to the pregnancy (some of that you can control, but most of it, you cannot)Make no mistake, this is emotionalo abuse and it will get worse, not better. The fact that he says he will leave if your body changes, is proof that he doesn t love or care about you, only a playground. do you wanna spend your life like this? being a single mom really isnt that bad!
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KICK his NUTS so hard that he will never utter a single bad word at a such a sensitive and importance period of life like pregnancy :)
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Absolutely not. I think its really hurtful and ultimately selfish not to mention inconsiderate to be making those kinds of remarks. Does that mean if, after having "HIS" baby if you don't regain what he considers good looks he is going to leave you? Wow, what a loss that would be. I would love to see him wear one of those pregnancy outfits they have for men. The guy sounds like a loser to me and I hope you let him read the answers on here. Maybe it will wake him up. JMHO
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NO WAY . It would be better to raise that child alone , than with a cold hearted sob like that ....
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Are you a complete moron to have to ask such a question? If you don't know the answer to this, then you need some therapy!
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Of course..as long as you don't mind her calling you A**hole, sh**face and dumba**. You wouldn't mind that at all, would you?
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What a putz! We men, have a difficult time understanding women. Having said that, I would never talk to my wife like that. What you are describing to us sounds like verbal abuse. Sweetheart, he will treat you like this for the rest of your life if you stay with him. He should respect & adore the mother of his child. Another thing to consider is, do you want your child/children thinking it is okay to speak to you, or anyone for that matter, like that? Children mimic the behavior they witness at home..... <a href="http://beta-1-3d-glucan.com/Beta-Glucan.html">Drew</a>
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Only if you are absolutely sure that she can't beat you up and don't care that others will think of you as a jackass ;)
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Ummm it is not the appropiate time nor is it ever the appropiate time espically when one is pregnant. I mean seriously women take offense to hearing about even remotely being fat (I am not being stereotypical here but some women do go crazy and starve themselfs when they believe they are fat.) This retarded society constantly shoves down the throat of the young that in order to be happy you have to be skinny as a freaking twig! This is going to have psychological effect on the one who is being verbally abused and women go through mood swings when they are pregnant so it is neither appropiate nor smart.
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No its not. He sounds like a first-class douche if you ask me.
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Definitely not! Most women I know felt disgusting when they were pregnant and having the person you love the most say things like that to you (especially when you're extra emotional) would be horrible. I don't think it's right for him to call her those things if she wasn't pregnant.
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