Is it possible for an ex gf to still love you and want to be with you but just need space because now isn't the right time for her?
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TheWiseMan
ANSWERS: 7
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I would need to know WHY now isn't the right time. If two people love each other then they usually find a way to overcome even big problems, and two people are usually able to cope better than one. You must remember, as well, that a woman's love is very different from a man's love. From the very little information you have given I think your ex has implied that she still likes you a lot but doesn't see herself spending the rest of her life with you. She is unsure where her future lies, though, so wants to keep an open door in case nothing better comes along. Basically you have been dumped but in a nice way. Sorry, mate, but that's how it sounds to me.
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Not the right time? what does that mean? is she really saying to you, that she has someone else and its not the right time for your relationship with her? sounds suspicious, very suspicious. In all due respect to her, she may have a legitimate reason for making this statement, but i doubt it. The saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder", is true in most situations. but, not here. i read much more into her statement to you of not being the right time. Betcha her eyes are looking in another direction and at someone else.
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She did not tell me that it isn't the right time for her, I put that in the question. She told me she didn't know if she was completely in love with me like she used to be and she needed time to herself because she was confused. She has been thru alot in her life and was going thru some difficulty when we split, there is so much I can't tell all of you.
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There are always two sides to a situation. this is my 2nd answer. We really need more information from you.
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I just seperated from my bf of 10 years and love him very very much, but I am unsure whether this love is just a comfort zone or whether I really am in love with him, I am only 25 and was with him since I was 15, I broke up with him because I feel like I need to discover who I am and what I want out of life, I didn't want to loose him but I also didn't want to use him just cause I didn't want to be alone, I will always love him but when I lived wiht my mother I had to base my decisions on what she wanted and straight out of her house into his the same thing I had to base all my decisions on what would make him happy by doing this I forgot who I was and what I wanted out of life, if once I know and I am ready I will take him back in a heartbeat. I do not know your situations so I cannot compare it to mine, but I can tell you to remember that everything in life happens for a reason and if its meant to be it will, haven't you ever heard that if you set something free and it comes back it will be yours forever but if it doesn't come back it never was yours to begin with.
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yeah..its possible. just wait it out but still be there for her when the time is right and tell her you love her and tell her you wanna be with her and stuff that's sweet OHOH OH BUY HER A ROSE. :D CUTEEE. lmao
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Maybe she has goals to accomplish and dreams to fulfill that require her to focus on education or work right now. Pwerhaps romance would be too all-absorbing for her. Perhaps she needs to find out who she is and dvelop herself as an individual. These could all effect timing.
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