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Before I can answer I need to understand further. Is he calling you? Or is he someone else's ex? I'm a little fuzzy on the details.
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The question is for my daughter. Her ex calls her incessantly,before,during & after work on the pretext of calling about the kids. Then he also calls to speak to their daughter several times a day and then asks to speak to my daughter. When she just doesn't answer he starts calling other family members to find her. He doesn't seem to get that they are divorced. Nobody wants to deny him access to the kids but it gets annoying even to his daughter. Wouldn't a scheduled once a day call be better than random calls all day? It's a major issue and was even before the divorce.
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WHY are you answering???? Talking to the 6 year old once a day is plenty, at a set time! I don't know what it is that he has to talk about with you, but I'm pretty sure it's nonsense. Unless he has business re:daughter, tell him you're busy or don't answer!
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This is totally the business of your wife/gf. You are cognizant, I assume, that this is what YOU are choosing to get involved with. If this bothers you, then do not date/marry this person. You may successfully change yourself; attempting to change others is a losing proposition...
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I think once is too many, except maybe once a day to speak with a child.
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Once a day to talk to your daughter is tolerable, but does he actually take any steps to see her? If not then that's just going to mess with her head and yours. She may grow up hearing the love but never experiencing it and that could warp her idea of what love is. You may need to seek legal advice. What is he telling your daughter when he speaks to her?
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