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  • not an answer just following the opening text, so i basically cant deal with it i have talked her out of suicide many times but im currently n the phone with her and she just wont stop threatening suicide and basically calling me the scum of the earth im not trying to just be cut and dry i have been saying id be her firend and be htere for her but she wont believe me nad i just cant deal with it anymore
  • I felt that way too, after my ex boyfriend said some things to me. They were humiliating and made me feel extreme shame about myself. I tried for two years to get over it but I cannot. This is a VERY difficult situation. Women tend to threaten and attempt suicide more often than they actually achieve it. If you really want to be kind to her, you can be a friend but do not meet with her. Tell her you will talk to her on the phone but limit it. This way she will not feel like you are totally gone. Do it by increments. What kinds of things did she say? Did she insult you?
  • I am in the same situation. How did it finally turn out with you?
  • Wow. Do you have a question for us?
  • You need to find happiness for yourself. This person is trying to used blackmail as a way to keep you around. This is not healthy for you. You need to be strong and walk away from them completely. You may feel responsible for their current state, but in reality you are not. This is an attempt to control you and you must not let anyone control you. Walk away and be strong. Know in your heart that this is what is best for you and that if this person chooses to do something to themselves then that is something that is simply out of your control. I know you care about them, but you must put yourself first. Walk away, get a restraining order if necessary because this situation if allowed to fester will only get worse for you in the end. It is a form of abuse, recognize that and in the end you will be much happier you stayed strong and didn't allow this person to play these emotional games with you.

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