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  • I did not feel that way at all. I couldnt stand the sight of him then and that feeling has only gotten stronger as the years have passed. It makes me physically ill to have to speak with him on the phone and seeing him brings on a gag reflex.
  • I get nauseated when I see my ex. I have literally gotten sick at the sight of him. I wouldnt go back to him, if he were the only man left on the face of this earth. Its been 5 years and I still feel this way.
  • Mine was severely abusive the entire time we were married. I wish that I never even had to hear his name again. However, we have five adult children and eight grandchildren. No such luck. We do try to not be places at the same time any more than possible. With weddings and births and grads, that's difficult.
  • I felt like that at first but it's been over a year now and things are much more amicable. I've dated some and come to realize what a good man he is and has been doing his best through all this. I still love him--- hell, I still get pissed at him, but I'll always love him.
  • I've been divorced for eight years now and don't miss him, yet alone love him. Everyone's experience is different depending how you were treated. Don't worry about it...and go have some fun!!!
  • When going through a divorce as far as what happened to me I went through many different feelings happy one minute cry the next then mad at the world. I think in a divorce everyone goes through different stages. I wanted to die when my ex left me I kept wondering what was wrong with me. Only TIME can make things better you may not think so now but in TIME you will get through this.
  • It generally depends on who did the firing! Sounds like you fired him. If he had fired you, you might be singing a different tune. I've seen women so enraged after getting fired by there ex hubbies that they get a demonic look to their faces, just pure hate. I've seen other fired women that were so sick from anguish that they appeared to be starring in the flick "night of the living dead". In divorce it's better to be administrating the humiliation than be receiving the humiliation. Once finding themselves trapped in the humiliation booth of unwanted divorce, women may well indeed fantasize about still loving their ex that dumped them. I mean a fantasy of love is better than nothing at all.

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