Is it important to know about every relationship your partner has had? Or is it better not to ask?
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TemptressV
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it's not a necessity, but it would be prudent to ask for (and offer) a clean bill of health before getting too involved
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No, not in excruciating detail. I do find it is good to get a pretty good sense of where someone's been and what kind of relationships they've had in the past, especially if it illustrates some kind of pattern about their personality that could raise potential red flags.
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I'd like to know if she used to do animals, dead people, porn or any of my friends or family. Outside of that I don't really care.
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From a health standpoint you want to know if your partner is someone who jumps between the sheets with every Tom Dick and Harry who catches her fancy. However I would not be interested in knowing all the details of their sizes how good or bad they were etc.
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you dont need to but i find that if you are both comfortable talking about both your past relationships its a good sign
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I think it's better not to ask. If your not sure you should watch the original Clerks and ask yourself if you really want to know.
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Sometimes it's just better not to know, one of us once date a real babe but he found out, her last boyfriend was a middle aged total sleaze bag, not long after that he broke off the relationship with the girl.
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Somethings (like ANYTHING in your partners past) are just better left undiscussed. There is a reason why they are in the past, even if there are 150 of them. Nothing wrong with a trip to the clinic before getting together, though... just a thought.
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