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I think it was deceitful and wrong for her to keep it from you all that time. I know it must have been hard for her to fess up, but that is that enough for you to ever trust her again? I am sure you are hurt by being betrayed and its up to you if you choose to forgive and forget, or let it go and move on. Good Luck
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I think the question that you should be asking is 'Why did she cheat in the first place?' are you guys in a happy loving relationship, if not i would say that everyone has a breaking point and sometimes people cheat because they are unhappy and like the excitment of someone else paying them interest. i cheated on my bf and told him it was just a kiss even though i slept with him. i confessed to the kiss to rid myself of guilt not because i thought he should know, which was pretty selfish of me but sometime i agree with the saying 'what they dont know cant hurt them'. you were taken advantage of but im sure it wasnt intentional and at the end of they day she's with you.
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the way i tell my husband once a cheat always a cheat a leopard never changes its spots its also the thrill of being caught and hiding secrets is a turn on as i say if they did it once have a long hard think about the kind of person they are and whats in it for you in the long run take care
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If she has cheated on you once through her actions, how many times has she done it through thoughts. Does she have a wondering eye? Has she cheated on you in otherways other than intercourse? Does she go around giving oral sex to men and not consider that sex (like Bill Clinton). If she has cheated on you once, what makes you so sure she will not, again! You and her will have to rebuild your trust. Trust is a cornerstone to a relationship. Without it, you cannot really have love.
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I always wonder why some people actually have to wonder about what they are going to do after they find out they've been cheated on...I hope you didn't take offense to that. I'm not saying you are stupid, I just don't get it. Don't you deserve someone who is loyal to you? Once a cheater, always a cheater. I don't care if she sincerely regrets it, she messed up big time. Don't let her play the sympathy card and make you feel sorry for her because she 'regrets' it. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing when she cheated on you. If I were you, I'd be gone faster than she could blink. Nobody deserves an unfaithful cheater.
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