by The Wise Guy on July 24th, 2008

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I've been single for 3 weeks. I just got out of a hard break up.... I can't take being alone anymore. I need a girl, no wait let me rephrase.... I need LOVE :( Maybe some people are not ment to be alone? My happiness is dependent on love for a girl?

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by Babycakes on July 26th, 2008
I was/am the same way. Don't go looking for love, it will find you. That's the truth.
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- Well that's how I found my first love... First time I didnt actually try to get a girl, and she fell right in my arms.
  
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  by The Wise Guy on July 28th, 2008
- I agree. Let love find you. Don't go looking for it. If you do, you just might disappoint yourself.
  
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by Kiss A Fat Babys Ass on July 24th, 2008
Sounds to me like you have a co-dependency problem.This will not only affect you when you are not in a relationship,but can contribute to relationship problems when you are in one. I suggest you speak with a counselor to help you with this.
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- What kind of relationship problems??
  
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  by The Wise Guy on July 24th, 2008
- well I am no expert and sure shouldn't be giving advice on relationships,but in my opinion co-dependent people are more likely to be too clingy and unwilling to give their partner enough space,which can cause big problems.
  
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  by Kiss A Fat Babys Ass on July 24th, 2008
- You are so right.
  
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  by Meg on July 28th, 2008
- Good answer.
  
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by Needs some coffee on July 24th, 2008
The last thing you need is another girl. Please take some time and learn to love yourself and be comfortable just being you. You don't want to end up with someone just because you are afraid of being alone. Plus, when you know you are just fine being alone, that's when you will know that your love for a girl is real.
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- That's very inspiring.
  
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- Good answer.
  
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by Little Miss Sunshine on July 24th, 2008
Poor you! I know how you feel.. You probably feel like this because you are so used to being in a relationship and having someone to love and who loves you. I'm sure you'll meet someone else in time, just don't rush into anything - you will probably end up feeling worse in a rebound relationship with someone you don't really care for. Good luck!
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- Ya that would suck.
  
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by meowry on July 26th, 2008
Oh, you're just in the training stage. It's that period of time after the relationship ends that you feel is longer than it actually is. And I know it's worse, when you are young. I remember always having a tough time, reigning in my emotions. Even when I was 27, I felt like a 17-yr-old!
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by Meg on July 26th, 2008
I know how you feel. Sadly, the only way to get out of this is to spend some time single. It may suck at first, but slowly you will learn to appreciate yourself again. When I broke up with my last bf, I felt like I could never be alone and that I'd die of loneliness. I cut all contact with him (with the help of my friends!) and went out more and met new people. Now, I have a great group of new friends and I don't want to be with someone again for a long, long time.
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- Well all contact is cut off between us... (untill next semester in college) but I'm going out alot, partying... I cant stand being at home alone :(
  
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  by The Wise Guy on July 28th, 2008
- that's good! DO NOT contact her until you're ready. You will know when you are ready. It's the strangest feeling and I can't describe it. You will come to a point in your life when it hits you that you are happy with yourself and you don't need to depend on someone to make you happy. I call it the "aha!" moment lol. It's so weird. You'll feel ecstatic, it's like being high. You'll think of her and not feel a thing. Then you'll know it's time to find someone new. Meanwhile, I encourage you to party, work, live your life and love yourself. Don't be afraid to cry hard if you need to. You're more important than you think.
  
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by Capital J on February 14th, 2009
have fun with that buddy. youll live a life of disappointment if you have to rely on other people to make you happy. you have to find happiness with yourself and then find someone to share your happiness with.
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by AnonymousGirl on February 14th, 2009
And why exactly do you think this girl you may not have even met deserves to have such a burden placed upon herself?
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  by The Wise Guy on February 14th, 2009
- Yeah, shame on you. Just think about it this way. Would you want someone to only be with you so that she can have someone love her? No, right? Anyway, it doesn't have to be shame on you.
  
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  by AnonymousGirl on February 14th, 2009
- This question was a while ago...
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  Yet I need someone that I can love and someone to love me back...
  Not ment to be selfish.
  
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  by The Wise Guy on February 14th, 2009
- I noticed, but you're probably not the only one who has thought of it.
  Well, it's a good thing you're willing to give love at the same time.
  
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