Poor you, its not a nice feeling is it and no matter what I say you wont feel any better, but time heals and thats something to keep in mind. Try and keep busy.

Awww, Tigger, I am so sorry to hear that. (((((((HUGS))))) Try to stay busy, work on yourself, and anything you think you might need to fix, so the next relationship, wont happen this way. Go out, do not stay home!!!!

I'm sorry that you broke up. Have a good cry and get it out of your system yes it hurts but he has decided to move on so you have to too. You cannot spend your life pining for him hoping he comes back. yes, the rejection will hurt like crazy but it will pass. One day in the near future you will find that you went through a day without once thinking about him. If you were living together then depending on whose house it was one of you will have to move out. If you are the one who has to do that. Stay with a close friend or family till you find your own home. Just one piece of advice: Conduct yourself with dignity.Don't do anything in the heat of the moment that will make you ashamed of your behavior when you look back in life.

Look, you will get over him... your better than just sitting around hoping something will happen... Get out there move, get a new job... just start all over... Get a new hair do... Do a whole make over... Something to start a new life

You WILL get over it. I was engaged to my ex of 5 1/2 years, and she just up and dumped me. It took about 1 month to get over the bad pain.... after that, it was just a matter of me deciding to move on with my life, and things got a lot better.

What to do next? First try to fix the relationship IF you really truly want too. That means you need to sit down with 'you' and have a talk with 'you' about what 'you' wants and needs. That 'talk' can be either really talking out loud, or just writing down everything you are feeling. Express the anger, sense of betrayal, sadness and all of that in a form which is comprehensible to you, that way you can start to see if a relationship continued with this person is the best option for you. If you do think it is really best to get back together then try too, limit yourself to 'rational' measures to make this attempt, being ever mindful that your fiance also has wants and desires and most likely has talked to their self and decided that this relationship is no longer tenable for them. If you decide that a break up is best, or you reach the conclusion that the other person involved is not going to give in then do something for YOU. Go back to school, take a few or one class(es). Join a Karate Class, learn a new skill, maybe engage your mind in a new field that can help you on your road to business success. What do all of these have in common? Self improvement. "Us" usually fails because "Me" (both me's in an Us) failed to do something or just didn't give a damn. Often "Me" is lost in an "Us" and that can lead to serious relationship issues. Relationships are great to have and all that, but too often the "me" in "us" is lost and when that relationship ends "me" ends up being high and dry with nothing to do and very uncertain as to how to live life as a "Me" instead of an "Us". I tell folk who have reached the end of a relationship to take a year off of "Us" kinds of relationships. That means no dating, no sex with a person, no seeking a relationship kind of person. Sex may be ok if your the type of person who can separate emotions of commitment, love, etc. out of 'its just sex'. most people I have known can not really separate the two. So focus on the "me" go do something selfish and self rewarding - focus on a hobby, focus on self improvement, focus on building friendships (not lover relationships) focus on family. During that year a person relearns who "me" is - and it makes it easier for them to understand how "me" fits into an "us" relationship. Rebound relationships rarely work, because "me" is in the process of discovery of who the new "me" is post- _____(fill in the blank with the name of the last lover). Technically no, you will never get over the past loves of your life. They are now part of you, they form a part of who YOU are. You will also take with you their parameters and you will measure others against those parameters. For the good or the bad - the 'ruler' by which you measure all others is formed by those past loves. either we look for characteristics we felt attracted too in the past love because we want those characteristics, or we look for those characteristics as part of our 'warning system' that we use to tick off reasons why a potential mate is 'no good' for us. Further, you will never, ever love anyone quite the same. For many people they think that because their love feels different that they are not in love. The truth is that we love each person in our lives in a different way because each person meets our needs and desires and we meet theirs in different ways. Granted over time (if you are an emotionally healthy individual) you will find the feelings (anger, confusion, sense of betrayal, regret, guilt, etc) to lessen to a great extent - it is highly possible that 'negative regrets' will turn into 'positive regrets' where instead of looking back at particular moments with anger or sadness or fear, you will look back with gentle fondness, joy, wistful 'thinking' etc. So in a way this person will still be affecting you, still be living with you inside of you and will continue to form who YOU are. I doubt that any feelings you have presently, and in future, about this person will be abnormal. You may doubt yourself, you may think your 'not normal' but the truth is that you most likely will be as confused, upset, emotional, neurotic, etc. during this process of change as anyone else would be/has been in similar circumstances. There is a point where these emotions can become abnormal and unhealthy - I would suggest you look up the symptoms of depression and check yourself against that list say 6 months down the road. Some people can become 'depressed' over a major event in their life - what starts out as 'normal' grief ends up becoming 'abnormal' sadness - they are sad so long their body makes 'sad' into their 'normal' state of affairs. -->Normal is in quotes because it is not a good term, however in our common language 'normal' is used to express a state of being which most of us understands.

You'll get over it as soon as you find someone else. We all go through it..we all get over it..we all survive and move on. Better now than later, don't you agree? :)