My friends partner has a ten year old son who keeps touching her breasts and making sexual comments to her. The boys father does not want to accept there is an issue and refuses to deal with it. any advice would be grateful
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barney
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then she should consider ending the relationship. that little kid is the shit.
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Then both the boy AND his father need major freaking therapy. I cannot imagine a 10 year old acting in such an overtly sexual manner without having been exposed to some pretty inappropriate things. I don't know where the mother is in all this, but that child is growing up disturbed. I see many problems coming in his future ifd there is not some kind of intervention. My advice, since you asked, is to call DFCS, since the father doesn't know how to raise a child appropriately. All calls are anonymous.
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If this man is not willing to recognize his son has a problem and does not care that he's son is touching his partner's breast and making sexual comments than I would recommend your friend to end the relationship and I would suggest this "dad" to acknowledge his child's problem before is too late.
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Uhm, first off, how is SHE not able to handle someone getting in her hula-hoop space? There should be NO touching allowed or stood for, regardless of whether Daddy does anything about it or not. As far as the comments, she's more than capable of telling the child what-for, and reporting to Daddy afterward. Since Daddy is obviously not concerned, I would be ending that relationship PRONTO. I couldn't see myself dating someone that would raise their kids in such a way.
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how about she stand up for herself and smack the childs hand away and tell him what a perv he is. he's ten years old what is she afraid of?
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OKay, well were 95% sure that hes not going though puberty, so put up parental blockers on the tv, block anything TV-14 or worse, watch out any video games he's playing, slap him when he makes a sexual comment and slap his hands when he touches you.
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Tell him to keep his hands to himself, coupled with "I'm sorry, you'll just have to find something else to do instead".
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You could try telling him (softly)that a woman's body is her own and should not be shared unless invited. You could follow this with getting him to count slowly and calmly up to 300. It would help - and work.
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Seems like the boy has gone on a long time without a mother figure in his life, and the father has failed to teach him to respect women. If your friend seriously wants to maintain a relationship with the man, she needs to stand up for her dignity and inflict some discipline on the son. Better yet, put the fear of god into him so he never treats a woman inapropriately again. If the father doesn't agree with this, then he needs the same treatment. If he doesn't want her to act like a mother towards his kids, then he must be lousy husband material.
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Ask him why he has 'wandering hands'. Then tell him to find something else to do instead.
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