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I always recommend having a serious talk with the cheater. You need to affirm that yes, it is hard for both of you having a lost-distance relationship. You need to make sure that she knows that she's in control of her own life but having sexual relations with others threatens the relationship. If you are too soft, she'll see that you won't end the relationship if she repeats it. If you are too stern, she'll leave you. You need to strike a balance in between those. Whatever you do, do NOT try to "get revenge" by reciprocating.
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Being in any relationship these days is very difficult. You both have to work very hard to maintain harmony between the both of you. However, a long distance relationship can be much more difficult to maintain because people get lonly. The mature response, short of ending the relationship, is to talk to her about the situation. Tell her how you feel about what she has done and that loyalty is necessary to maintain the relationship. I don't want to be negative, but what she has done will eventually create repercussions in that you will begin to distrust her aside from other things. Unless you can somehow spend more time with her and forgive her, I don't see this relationship being long term.
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I guess it was good she was honest enough to admit it. Maybe being a little short with her the next few times you talk might be enough.
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long distance relationships are hard. she cheated propably because she craves male attention, it doesnt make her a bad person, that fact is, would you be able to trust her again? if your gonna forgive her dont keep harping on about it, it will end up driving a bigger wedge between you. just forget about it and never mention it again. you never know she may have only told you to get a reation out of you. some people want to end a relationship but dont have the guts she might have been hoping that you would dump her.
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I recently went through the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship until a week ago when I got drunk and had sex with someone. My boyfriend and I broke up after I told him what happened. I didn't realize how much I loved him until this happened, and I am genuinely sorry and regretful for cheating on him. I want him back so badly and I love him so much. I miss him with all my heart. I wish I could take back what I did but all I can do at this point is to learn from my mistakes and try to be a better person. I have begged for forgiveness and all he can say is that he can't promise me anything. (I was surprised he even called me again because he is the type of person to just end it like that) I think it is positive that he called me a couple of days later and we have been talking, but I am just worried that he will never be able to forgive me. This is the only time I have ever cheated on him. What should I do?
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