Ok i just got out of a relationship, I thought since she left me that she doesnt like me anymore so........anyway now she is mad cause its been 8 days and im talking to someone else! Why would she be mad at me when shes the one that ended it?
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nrwizard13
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Jealousy. She may not want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to want you either!
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Meh, who cares? She's mad, ergo, she's the one with the problem. Being dumped has perks like that: no one can judge you.
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She thought that you would have more respect for what you two had then getting over her in 8 days. She probable didn't want to be in a relationship which is why she broke up with you but the fact that you two were in a relationship means that you both meant a lot to eachother at one time. Since you have this history she probable didn't expect you to get over her that fast since she most likely isn't even over it. It's just as hard to be the dumper then the dumpee
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Because it still hurts to see someone you used to be intimate with, be intimate with someone else. Even if you know you don't want to be with them.
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That's actually fairly hard to answer because it has to do with a lot of variables. For example, if she dumped you for cheating on her, she's mad because your moving on is proof that she meant nothing to you, which hurts. If she dumped you because she was cheating on you, it could be that the guy she was after turned out not to be all that interested in her and your getting involved with someone else means she no longer has a standby, or that while she didn't really want you, she got off on the idea that you wanted her bad enough that you wouldn't want anyone else, at least not for a long time. In other words, there's really no clear-cut answer to your question. Personally, I'd say, ignore her. If she cared that much about you, she wouldn't have dumped you. Whatever her reasons were, everyone deserves to find a little happiness and that includes you. Just remember not to rush into the next one or it'll likely end with someone else getting hurt.
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3 month rule. oh and ya, she's upset that you've moved on. she wants to believe she's irreplaceable and she wants to move on before you do.
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