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It appears that you are dwelling on the negative. If both of you are happy and having a good time, then why throw in the towel? Long distance relationships don't have to see anyone get hurt...in fact in many long distance relationships (even ones that span oceans) there are many stories of both sides living happily ever after. If you already know for a fact that you can't invest in the relationship and have a positive return on the investment, then you are foolish to put any effort or emotion in to it. On the other hand, if you are just afraid of the distance but otherwise see a positive relationship with someone you desire, then maybe you are just hearing your inner laziness cry out that this is going to require too much work. If they are worth the effort of your emotion, then the distance can be addressed.
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