ANSWERS: 11
  • Nothing .. what she does or doesn't do in her life has no effect on mine. If it were a friend of mine, i would just be her friend and she would know i am here if ever she wanted to talk about it with me.
  • you make your bed, you lay on it
  • It shows the strength her mind to excuse a cheater and still give him happiness. She demonstrates the difference between meek and weak. Such persons are rare.
  • If she is aware of the cheating and still with him, she does not need conversation, she needs a shrink.
  • A LOT of people do this. It isn't their fault. They fall in love with someone and that person hurts them. It's hard to fall out of love with someone for doing something bad that isn't your fault. Also they are used to the person and it's scary to go of and start again on your own. It's so hard. Also, there is something about arrogant, disrespectful macho jerks that is irresistible. That is why I stayed with my ex boyfriend for three years.
  • I would leave a copy of the book "He's Just Not that Into you" on her desk. She will do what she wants until she sees that she is worth more.
  • If she was bitching about it, I would tell her to shut up. If she just mentioned it, I would feel sorry for her but I don't think she really wants any advice. Maybe she is frigid and this guy is just a horn-dog and figures he is gonna get his rocks off with or without her. If she knows of 3 times, you can bet that he actually did it like 30 times.
  • it's not her that needs talking to, it's him!!!
  • clearly she hasn't gotten it on her own, or else she doesn't want to. my advice probably wouldn't make a difference to her. i'd just let it be
  • What I would say to her wouldn't make a difference. I was cheated on...w/ 4 diff women. I only knew about the one and then shortly before we broke up I found out about another, and after we were apart, he told me of 2 more... If it happened more than once, it will keep happening. I would tell her..."one day, you will realize for yourself that you deserve better, and you will feel foolish for staying as long as you did, but I am sorry for your pain and I hope it gets better for you" there is no excuse for cheating...none.
  • I would ask her why? I would say she should let the guy go, who knows what she could bring back to him..It is clear that she has the morals of an alley cat and should tell him. He can't know it's going on, no one would put up with that. She most certainly doesn't love him, tell her to let him go. She must be something to work with, gez.

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