Ok. so im 10 yrs old and older ppl say i dont understand love when i have only loved 2 ppl! and ive liked 4 ppl...they think i love every girl i like... how should i should i confront them that there wrong?
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sharpie
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You feel it, and it affects you, can make you laugh or feel upset when you are thinking about that person, so yeah, you can feel love. People think that becasue you arent an adult that you are not capable of feeling it. You sure can, it mightnt be the same depth of love that you experience as an adult (as you grow, more factors become involed in a relationship), but it still has all the same effects on your mind and heart. Hope that helps darlin :)
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Just tell them that there's no way they can know what you feel for other people. Tell them you're not them when they were 10 years old, and that you'd appreciate if they keep their judgments to themselves. That will get your point across...or get you grounded.
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Since you are just ten years old, you have a lifetime ahead of you to convince the world.
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It is a different kind of love when you are 10. It is real, but not like the adults feel, so they think yours doesn't count. They are also afraid that you may take your 'crushes' too seriously and get yourself into trouble. I am not sure how you get them to change their minds. You may have to do like the rest of us did and not share the feelings with them that cause conflict.
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You are the one who is wrong. You are too young to know what love is.
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Love means a million different things. You and everyone else loves, just not in the same way. The way you mean it is the most emotion that you can possibly feel for someone. I think this amount changes as you grow. Your love and an adult's love are very different, but also the same thing. It's like drink sizes. A small chocolate milkshake is the same thing as a large, they're both amazing, but the large is well larger hehe. Same thing with love. An adult is just taking your love and comparing it witht theirs. Because they can't be the same size, they say you can't love. For your age and maturity, yes you're in love. I always thought kids and teenagers couldn't love, but maybe they can. Hmm.
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Alot of teenagers and even adults think they are in love when they arent! You cant say after a few weeks, unconditional love takes time, you could just be infatuated!
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