what could you have done to make them give up on you. must have been good. my daughters grandma (her dad's mom) completly gave up on him because he refuses to make good choices and after all the crap he has gone threw still continues to do drugs and drink and his gf is just a piece of shit. are parents always have a valied reason for doing what they do. why dont you think about what it is that you did and try to comprimise and work with them to make you a better you and have them understand you a little better in the process. they do not have to like what you do (unless its illigal) but they should accept us as we are. (unless it is illigal)

Are you sensitive and creative and are they less so? More practical types? How old are you?

Do some research about emancipation of minors, where you go to court and get the right to live on your own. http://www.larcc.org/pamphlets/children_family/teen_emancipation.htm If you are too young for that, contact family services about getting a foster home.

You aren't the only one. Somehow, I think that may be helpful to you right now.

I don't know how old you are, but things can change drastically as you become an adult and make your own way in the world. What is important is that YOU know yourself better than anyone. If there is something you know you need to work on, then do it.

this is a huge problem... thinking that they "never will" provides you with no arguments left to prove them wrong!

I've been through this, now I'm forced with them.. doesnt really make sense.. but honestly the best thing is counsling.. You need a mediator, someone who can share concerns of both sides.

That's pretty serious being called a corruption. I would take a good look at myself and what I did to deserve such a label. Even families have limits to what they will tolerate from it's own members. If you have done nothing to deserve this then it's time to move on.

You say they never will understand you, never is a strong word and should not be used as everything always changes. Having said that I am assuming you are a teenager or young adult who has made choices that has disrupted your family to the point they threw their arms in the air and just cant do it anymore???? Or, you are a teenager or young adult who is not doing what Dad or Mom did and perhaps wants to go on a not so traditional road????? You need to provide more details to get helpful answers to your particular situation as it is not clear what exactly you mean by corruption. For the record, parents never understand their teenagers, its tradition but it all gets better later on. Please be more specific about why you feel they will never understand you and what they mean by corruption. thanks

Now hear this......... Your parents have never and never will give up on you. You are their child and will be forever. If you have caring parents, be thankful. It will just take time. i would make an effort to keep communicating with your parents. Sometimes, a generation gap can be closed, if both parties are willing to do their part. Notice i said BOTH parties.

Let's get this straight: deep within, your parents love you deeply and care for you. Your mother gave birth to you, and allowed you to live and raised you, paid for your education, took you to the doctor, everything. In contemporary times, how can that not be love? They're just worried about you and can't see your side of the situation. You're not alone. Rarely can parents ever see your side of the situation. But rarely can you ever your parent's side. You must learn to trust them. Show love, and you will get love. All you need is a hug. However, since you are in a dire state at the moment, let's deal with this. You. are. Never. Alone. You know why? Because you've got yourself. Never looked at it this way, hmm? :) You are your own best friend, and you have to rely on yourself in times of need. Love yourself. Remember, you will ALWAYS have yourself to lean on. The inside you that knows the vulnerability and the true essence of what you really are. If it's possible to get a dog... get one. It's hard when they go, but if you want unconditional love, 24/7, constant 'I love you's every minute, you want a dog. What will happen to you? Don't worry, you'll be fine. Nobody's alone nowadays. There's people everywhere that care. For now, focus on making a true, good friend that will listen to you and be there for you, and one that you are prepared to be there for as well. It's not that hard, you don't have to look.

I think that to be called a "corruption" by your own family you must have done something really -and allow me to emphasize on that- REALLY bad… Parents usually look at their sons and daughters as angels even if that kid had the sign of Satan on his/her forehead…. Why?? Because that is how parents are… they love you unconditionally until they die… Of that be sure… And about them not understanding you well guess what you don't understand them too... there is a gap between the two generations… but the level of understanding will increase when you get elder… so just drop the never and have it clear that one day you guys will be able to understand each other maybe not 100% but at least 95%... At last your parents will never give up on you… they would say it when they are angry and they might say that they are ashamed to be your parents but hey who wouldn't be ashamed to be related to you if you act like some kind of……….. You know what I mean… even you might be ashamed to be related to you sometimes… But you can fix all of this… 1) talk to an adult that you trust and tell him/her about the situation and take advice… 2) sit with your parents and that adult and talk together about the problems you have and try to get a solution for them… 3) And most of all no matter how hard it is don't give up on your self or on your parents… And ya don't forget we -AB- are all there for you as friends… Hope I helped in a way or another… ^_^