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Go talk to a counselor or doctor, someone who can refer you to the right people to help you figure this out.
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Ur not any more screwed up than any other teen.
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Hey bud listen, you've still got time to change. Ask them what they think you are doing wrong; I know you might be thinking it's easy for me to say, but I was a pretty screwed up teenager; did drugs and all. Honestly, even talk to people at school- teachers, councilors; you'd be amazed at what they can do. It's a small start, but from here in germany, you can say at least one person believes in you changing =) And about your personality...just come clean with the people you've wronged; you'd be amazed at what it could fix =)
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see a counsellor, you will need to find out the root of the problem before anything can change.
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You should discuss this with your medical provider or spiritual adviser. Also, many schools have counselors, or you might have a favorite teacher you can talk to.
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Go and see a proffessional who can sort these things out..What are you lying about..seek help
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I feel the same way bro :( we just gotta pray and ask god to help us what else can we do? tell me if you get some good advice
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When you lie, you do it for one of a few different reasons. 1. Because no one respects you or listens to you. 2. Because you are a control freak and can't be told no or disagreed with. 3. Because you are afraid of what others will say or do so you become accomidating in the moment to avoid confrontation. 4. Because you enjoy getting things over on authority figures and it makes you feel that you got away with something. The problem with most is when you lie, it means that you actually respect or esteem someone else as better or higher than you are because telling the truth is a matter of character and strength in most cases and if you feel you can't do that, it is usually out of a disrespect for the self first. If you expose yourself to that condition over long periods of time, your own ego tends to rebell against you and something inside your psyche tells you to do it, because you enjoy it. Which is a lie to justify the fact that you cant control yourself and have little to no respect for yourself which to the psyche is counterintuitive. SO knowing that. Work on your self esteem and no matter how hard it is or how much trouble you are going to get into or how much you get off on getting away with things and manipulating others, Cultivate the opposite with intent and you will take care of this on your own. Realizing that you have a problem means that this is not you, just something that you have become used to. Most liars, have no idea that they are wrong or bad for doing it, it is an actual part of the condition of lying when it goes too far and your mind begins to justify it even to the self. Before you get to that point. Do something about it.
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stop putting yourself fist, put others needs before your own.
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The things you do today are not the things you have to do tomorrow. If you don't like something about yourself, then change it. If you really want to change then you can. I'm 30 and I still find things from time to time that I no longer like about myself. I resolve to no longer do it and the very next day I cut it out. I slip up sometimes, but that's what the next day is for. Good luck!
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if you really fel you have an actual problem, maybe try a psyciatrist(spelling?) anyway, you may have a personality dissorder that you can take pills for, cause that can really interrupt your everyday life...although you may just be being a teenager too!!! and i know you may not think your parents are being supportive(and i dont know any of you), however, as a younger mom of a 9 yr old, i now know what my mom went through with me...when your young,you think the world is against you...i would try to think about it in their point of view, also...it may actually help you
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