ANSWERS: 8
  • I join you in your predicament. I also suffer this as well. If you want you can tell me more about what is going on if you like.
  • get some friends that are girls, eventualy you will gwt attracted to one of them, and meaby start dating her, but try not ot meantion her at all, try and not to, no matter how hard.
  • If you love her that much, wait it out. Most people break up, so, she'll probably break up with him and maybe realize how much you love her and give you another shot.
  • See my answer at http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2762628 You will probably never really get rid of your feelings for her, but you will come out of it happier than you are now. And years from now, you WILl look back on it and still wonder, but you will have little to no desire to "look her up". You will probably feel bad whenever you see her, unless and until you find someone else. Make SURE, when you do, that you don't go TOO far until you're SURE its not just a "rebound relationship".
  • Just remember all the bad things sge did to you, always worksfor me,when ithink about all the $hit he has gone to me and how bad a felt, i start to hate hm. its like picking a scab that just started getting better.
  • I've been there myself bro. I know, It FUCKIN' hurts for sometime. Go out and have some fun, Have a few drinks with mates, dancing, etc, what ever you do for kicks/fun. You''ll make someway. If you just stay home, or keep thinking of her, it's going to tear you apart and you'll just be hurting more then you are now. Good luck Bro.
  • You have to start loving yourself more. If you had a small child that wanted to keep going to play with some kid/s who didn't like him, what would you do? Exactly. I don't suppose you'd keep putting him in the way of grief, pain and rejection, would you? You'd encourage him to play with kids that did like hime and you'd take him out to do things he liked. Well, take yourself out to do the things you liked when you were a kid - or, maybe you still enjoy? I'm thinking of sports, nature, fishing, swimming, painting ... whatever it is? Then make sure you distract 'him' whenever he starts thinking of her. One-way love is too destructive, don't go there.
  • Getting rid of your feelings is not the thing to do. Your feelings are what make you who you are. Breaking up can be a b*tch of a thing to go through..but the fact is..you've gone through it and you've come out the other side. You're now stronger and more knowledgeable because of it. It will benefit you now to move on and away from those negative thoughts which leave you feeling stuck in the midst of it all. Redirect the thoughts to positive ones which allow you to become unstuck and once again able to enjoy your life. It can be hard to redirect a thought pattern..but you are strong and you can do it.

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