Your question is kind of garbled, but unless I misunderstood, my opinion is: You have two problems here: one is with your wife, and one is with your family. The problem with your wife is that you don't love her and don't want to be with her anymore. The only solution to that problem is to tell her you're sorry, you made a mistake, you never meant to hurt her, but you want a divorce. You might want to look into divorce laws in your region first. In my region, either you have to sue for divorce (in which case you need a good reason, like abuse or cheating), or you have to both agree to the divorce and separate for a year before you begin the divorce proceedings. Try putting "divorce" and the name of your region (state or city, for instance) into a search engine like google. As for your family, you might want to have a talk with them about how much their attitudes about your sexuality are impacting your life negatively. Use the divorce as a starting-off point and go from there. Hopefully your family will come to accept your sexuality and will keep their opinions to themselves and stop pressuring you to be heterosexual. If this doesn't happen you might have to estrange yourself from them. It may take a lot of time, effort, patience, etc. You may benefit from counselling. Good luck.

Buddy, I don't know if this is a joke or not, but your use of "boy" and your being 25, is a very big problem. If this boy was under 18, then I am sorry, you need serious professional help. Furthermore, I am going to assume that you are from another country, and therefore, do not know the English language very well. At 25, you should have been man enough to be able to make that type of decision on your own. You were wrong to get married, until you were sure of your own sexuality. What ever made you believe that marriage is to be taken lightly, is beyond me. The vows you took, said for better or worse. In today's society, they want kids to believe that divorce is totally acceptable. WRONG. You should not get married IF YOU HAVE ANY questions or hesitations. Divorce should always be a total last resort, after family counseling, and before you start hating your spouse. If you have children, and can not work out a compromise with your spouse, instead of fighting in front of the children, talk to them and you BOTH, tell them the reasons why you two can't get along. THINK OF CHILDREN FIRST.

It would help if you spelled a little bit better but thats besides the point. Be honest with her maybe? And get a divorce if your unhappy.

This ain't no kind of life you should be leading there, BUDDY BOY! - Donnie "GodROCKS" Glax

i think that yuh should tell her to just hear yuh out if yuh have to say something and if she decides not to listen then it wasn ment for yuh to be wit her yuh will need someone that will listen and appreciate yuh and i think mabe yuh should give her space a lil