by Sophie on June 25th, 2008

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I'm not interested in men anymore, i just can not be bothered with going on dates, should i give men more of a chance to impress me?

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by Theby on June 25th, 2008
Maybe you need to be by yourself for a while and find out more about you. lol
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- Yeah see i was thinking that, but i don't know what that would acheive because i know myself really well and i am very strong minded in certain ways about knowing what i want and what im like.
  
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by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on June 30th, 2008
Why do you want men to "impress" you? Sounds to me as if you may just be a TAD self-centered. : )
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by Richard on June 30th, 2008
Give men a chance to impress you? My we are full of ourselves. Contrary to what mommy and daddy told you, you are not a princess. You say you are not intrested in men says alot like maybe a large amount of failed relationships probably based on your self centered attitude.

Do the men a favor and dont bother them and enjoy being alone until you become an adult.
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- touche' +6
  
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  by weatherman taking week or so off on June 30th, 2008
- That is exactly why men piss me off, people like you commenting about me when you have no idea who i am or what i have been through in life! I am not self centered at all believe me!
  
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  by Sophie on July 1st, 2008
- "Should (I) give me a chance to impress (ME)?"
  
  What exactly make you think men should impress you? You are no different than any other human being on this planet except you seem to expect someone to impress you. That is self centered and selfish.
  
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  by Richard on July 1st, 2008
- Chirping in - "impressing", like love, is a two-way street. Are you doing your best to impress men?
  
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  by weatherman taking week or so off on July 1st, 2008
- Surely everyone should try to impress the other person when you are dating, its not just one way! get off your high horse...
  
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  by Sophie on July 1st, 2008
- That is flawed logic, if you try to impress while dating then you will eventually disappoint each other when you are in a relationship and grow comfortable. Why not just find someone your not affraid to be yourself around? Its women like you who make men into the asshole you complain about.
  
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  by Richard on July 1st, 2008
- My horse is higher than your horse. Na na na na na. (sticking out my tongue).
  
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  by weatherman taking week or so off on July 1st, 2008
- I am always myself anyway, and being myself mean trying to impress the other person!
  
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  by Sophie on July 2nd, 2008
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by Boycott on June 30th, 2008
You don't have to be in a relationship if you're not intrested to. Men won't change if they don't impress you then maybe you have to change your expectations/-
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by SqurlprtsUSMC on June 25th, 2008
I think your reasoning is a bit skewed. Why are you trying to be "impressed"? What are you looking in them to impress you? Money, status, balloon sculpting abilities?

How about just getting to know someone for their personality and see how it goes.
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- It just seems that all men want to do is go out for a drink, not think about where the other person might like to go, somewhere different, something exciting..
  
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  by Sophie on July 1st, 2008
- I'm thinking you might be hanging out in the wrong circles.
  
  My recommendation would be to do the things you like. Guys who have similar interests will also be doing the same things.
  
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  by SqurlprtsUSMC on July 1st, 2008
- this is very true!
  
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by Will on June 25th, 2008
What is so special about you that you need to be impressed?
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by Katie on June 25th, 2008
NO!!! Just have fun with you being you. Making you a better person, learning, laughing and having fun with friends.

When the time is right, they guy who deserves someone so fabulous will be there. Then enjoy!!! It is going to be great!!!
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  by Sophie on June 25th, 2008
- Good words.
  
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  by Tex on June 25th, 2008
- thanks sophie and Tex!! Words of experience!!!
  
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  by Katie on June 25th, 2008
- How do i find out on here who takes points away from me?
  
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  by Sophie on June 25th, 2008
- That I don't know. Just consider them trolls. They love me. I hate them. LOL!! Just ignorant selfish creeps who get their jollys off on DR'ing.
  
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  by Katie on June 25th, 2008
- You can't find that out. It's one of the things I can't stand about this system. It's too easy for people to be cowards and down rate you and not have to get found out.
  
  I never down rate without an explanation, but that's just how I am.
  
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  by Tex on June 25th, 2008
- I know its really annoying, people are really harsh sometimes for no reason. surely just don't add points in the first place don't take them away!
  
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  by Sophie on June 25th, 2008
- can't imiagint that... I get so many DR's a day... and they even came whiel I was away for several months. I think it should be set so that if you are going to DR, you have to say why. Just politeness.
  
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  by Katie on June 25th, 2008
- I couldn't agree with you more. When I posted a statement (as a question) about this very topic, I got dr'd and the statement got flagged.
  
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  by Tex on June 25th, 2008
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by Kricket on June 25th, 2008
That is entirely up to you. From my own experience I haven't had a date in all most 6 years. But am I worried? Does it bother me? The answer to that one is no! I am happy with who I am right now and I can be happy with out a man. If sometime later on a man comes along and he is right for me? Maybe I will give it another chance. But it took me a good while to think some things through as to why I felt like I needed a man to make me happy and once I figured out why. I was fine after that. So, it is your own choice and don't let any relative or friend try to influence your decision. You do what you feel and think is best. :-)
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- Good for you girl! i think that my parents and my friends do expect me to settle down and go on dates because its the "normal" thing to do, I'll stick to me and go from there!
  
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  by Sophie on June 25th, 2008
- I'm so glad to hear you say that! If you don't mind. I feel like sending you a hug, so here it is! (((((Sophie)))) I'm also proud of you! I know that I hardly know you. But still I am! :-D
  
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  by Kricket on June 25th, 2008
- thank you :)
  
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  by Sophie on June 26th, 2008
- Your welcome! :-)
  
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by Jane on June 30th, 2008
If you are not interested why bother? Life is more than just finding a "soulmate".
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by Galeanda on June 30th, 2008
Only after you are ready for it by learning about yourself and why you feel this way. The only way you can meet the right people is by being what you want to attract.
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by linusnuahs on June 30th, 2008
Impress you? If you are worth it... and judging by the "attitude" of your question, you are worth it... give it a chance... I am sure you would find the right ones...
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by stevenusher999 on June 25th, 2008
it sounds like youve maybe had some bad experiences, and havnt met the right guys, but rest assured there ARE good guys out there :) give us a chance, we're not all idiots :D
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- Yes just a few! I think i just seem to attract the wrong type of guy. i tend to attract guys that love themself, or go out and cheat. I'm easy going and never stop anyone from doing anything so they do.....
  
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  by Sophie on June 25th, 2008
- thats a real shame, not all guys are like that. its good that you are easy going trusting, and its horrible when that gets taken advantage of :( hang in there, dont write us off just yet ;)
  
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  by stevenusher999 on June 25th, 2008
- Ok i won't I promise :)
  
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by meowry on June 25th, 2008
Let them try to impress you. It can be fun.
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by -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....- on June 25th, 2008
Im not bothering either - its not worth the grief, just learn to like your self and your own company
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by HuskyLove on June 25th, 2008
do women interest you? you probably just might need a break from dating. once you feel like you really really need a man, they will magicaly start to impress you!
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- No, i think i do just need a break and have some fun!
  
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  by Sophie on June 25th, 2008
- Have a great day! Have fun and stay safe!
  
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  by HuskyLove on June 25th, 2008
- Thank you, you to :)
  
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by Nelson - Jetpacking from bed on June 30th, 2008
It sounds like your attitude is rather scewed. Take some time, get to know yourself and what you want. You sound rather angry. Perhaps once you get to know yourself better, you will be in a better position to impress the right type of man.
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by Anonymous03 on June 30th, 2008
i don't believe you're as self centered as people on here say you are. you've probably encountered a lot of negative relationships and therefore, your outlook on men haven't been so positive. i'll tell you though, as many honest guys will tell you, men aren't all the same and it takes a lot of patience to find your right man. now you know what things don't impress you, it'll be easier to weed out the people who you don't see as a potential husband. because honestly, if you give up on men, i might as well too.. however, i'm keeping my hope because i have plenty of male friends and family members who i deeply admire.. so i absolutely know there's a right man for me out there. don't lose hope and goodluck :)
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by Bitto on June 30th, 2008
It takes two to tango; if you impress him, chances are he will impress you too. If you are blah! don't expect any man to go ga-ga out of his way to "impress" you.
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- That's fair enough i completely agree with you, its not like i don't make that effort :)
  
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by maddienco on June 25th, 2008
let them impress you more and relish in the attention then you'll find the one that matters to you. :)
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