I'm not interested in men anymore, i just can not be bothered with going on dates, should i give men more of a chance to impress me?
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Sophie
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Maybe you need to be by yourself for a while and find out more about you. lol
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let them impress you more and relish in the attention then you'll find the one that matters to you. :)
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That is entirely up to you. From my own experience I haven't had a date in all most 6 years. But am I worried? Does it bother me? The answer to that one is no! I am happy with who I am right now and I can be happy with out a man. If sometime later on a man comes along and he is right for me? Maybe I will give it another chance. But it took me a good while to think some things through as to why I felt like I needed a man to make me happy and once I figured out why. I was fine after that. So, it is your own choice and don't let any relative or friend try to influence your decision. You do what you feel and think is best. :-)
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do women interest you? you probably just might need a break from dating. once you feel like you really really need a man, they will magicaly start to impress you!
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Im not bothering either - its not worth the grief, just learn to like your self and your own company
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Let them try to impress you. It can be fun.
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NO!!! Just have fun with you being you. Making you a better person, learning, laughing and having fun with friends. When the time is right, they guy who deserves someone so fabulous will be there. Then enjoy!!! It is going to be great!!!
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it sounds like youve maybe had some bad experiences, and havnt met the right guys, but rest assured there ARE good guys out there :) give us a chance, we're not all idiots :D
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What is so special about you that you need to be impressed?
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I think your reasoning is a bit skewed. Why are you trying to be "impressed"? What are you looking in them to impress you? Money, status, balloon sculpting abilities? How about just getting to know someone for their personality and see how it goes.
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You don't have to be in a relationship if you're not intrested to. Men won't change if they don't impress you then maybe you have to change your expectations/-
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Give men a chance to impress you? My we are full of ourselves. Contrary to what mommy and daddy told you, you are not a princess. You say you are not intrested in men says alot like maybe a large amount of failed relationships probably based on your self centered attitude. Do the men a favor and dont bother them and enjoy being alone until you become an adult.
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Impress you? If you are worth it... and judging by the "attitude" of your question, you are worth it... give it a chance... I am sure you would find the right ones...
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Only after you are ready for it by learning about yourself and why you feel this way. The only way you can meet the right people is by being what you want to attract.
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Why do you want men to "impress" you? Sounds to me as if you may just be a TAD self-centered. : )
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If you are not interested why bother? Life is more than just finding a "soulmate".
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It sounds like your attitude is rather scewed. Take some time, get to know yourself and what you want. You sound rather angry. Perhaps once you get to know yourself better, you will be in a better position to impress the right type of man.
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i don't believe you're as self centered as people on here say you are. you've probably encountered a lot of negative relationships and therefore, your outlook on men haven't been so positive. i'll tell you though, as many honest guys will tell you, men aren't all the same and it takes a lot of patience to find your right man. now you know what things don't impress you, it'll be easier to weed out the people who you don't see as a potential husband. because honestly, if you give up on men, i might as well too.. however, i'm keeping my hope because i have plenty of male friends and family members who i deeply admire.. so i absolutely know there's a right man for me out there. don't lose hope and goodluck :)
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It takes two to tango; if you impress him, chances are he will impress you too. If you are blah! don't expect any man to go ga-ga out of his way to "impress" you.
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