My 4 y/o daughter just told me that my mother in laws 10 y/o foster daughter has been "rubbing" her and her 6 y/o brother. what do i do?
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Talk to the mother in law if she doesnt stop dont let them be alone together anymore or just plain-out dont let them be alone together anymore and still talk to her about the problem good luck
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Find out exactly what she means by "rubbing", and then have a talk with your mother in law and explain what's going on.
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First of all make sure you understand completely what she means by rubbing. Next you need to sit your mother in law down and bring it to her attention, between the five of you some counseling should be looked into and I wouldn't leave your 4yr old and your 6yr old alone with this child until it happens.
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Find out as much as you can about the incidents and then talk to your mother-in-law. If this is a "foster child" she is in state custody and the social worker on the case should be contacted should you feel your 4 and 6 year olds are describing sexual contact. In any case, the children should not be left alone.
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that girl needs counseling . Why is she being left unattended with the kids ?
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I agree with the other answers. Find out more. Tell your mother in law and don't let them be alone with her. The 10 year old definately needs counseling. She has probably expirenced abuse. I would also praise your daughter for telling you and talk to both children about people touching them (I tell mine that the bathing suit area is private).
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How does a 4 year old know what the term "rubbing" mean? There are several definitions, so before you jump to conclusion, find out what is going on. Ask some questions. Tell the mother in law about this. She needs to know. When I was ten years old(no joke), I was a confused sexual active child. I was exposed to too much sex and nudity. The 10 year old girl needs to have a talk with you. It does not mean that she needs to know about sex early. But many children are confused about their bodies.It is likely that the 10 year old girl needs counseling.
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At worst it's simply early development of interest in such things, tread carefully is my best advice I'm afraid.. children are such fragile creatures.
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