ANSWERS: 26
  • I think the LAST thing you need to do, as a guy, is be the one to worry about her not calling you in a few days. That's the woman's job bro. Aside from the lesson. 3 days is nothing. Do something. Be active, so you don't think about that so much, cuz it's really no big deal. Whatever you do, don't give in. Let her call you, and don't sound relieved to hear her when she does call. If girls smell weakness, they either are turned off completely by it, or they use it and take advantage of it, to your eventual dismay.
  • I think that a text message could be in order saying something along the lines of "Do you want to go out ..." - that way, if she turns you down, your pride will still be intact and you will have the answer you seek. And, she may even say 'yes'.......
  • If you want to talk to this girl...then call her. I would'nt mention anything about the 3 days. Just start by telling her how you enjoyed the last conversation and take it from there......Don't play these waiting games...you could lose out on a potential relationship....If you want something...go and get it.......but with out looking desperate too. Good luck.
  • dude you need to call her! what are you thinking? the girls don't want to have to make a move. they see how interested you are in them by you calling or taking the initiative! CALL HER!!
  • Lols, you're supposed to call her, she's not supposed to call you.
  • i think shes either been really busy, lost your number, or is messing you about. i say call her again just to check. she may think your not interested if you dont. hope all goes well x
  • It's only been 3 days, geez relax. 3 days is the standard time to leave someone hanging till you call them. And she could be busy too you know. Poeple do have lives.
  • Let her deal with you on her own time. If she doesn't call then she doesn't call.
  • first of all does she have your number? if she has its only been 3 days so she might just be busy... give it some time.
  • She is waiting for you to call.
  • Oh man, you really like her don't you? I mean, it's ok to call her to ask her out, but to talk 2 hours and not get a date? Not good. Let me get something straight here. It's obvious that you like her (and I'm betting she's got it by now already too), since that's one definite way of telling her that. From now on, the phonecalls are 10 minutes tops, simply because that way you won't be giving away things about yourself that you might not want to. Phonecalls are a tiny bit deceiving; you can't see the other person's body language. Sure you can hear the words coming out of their mouth, and even the tone of their voice, but that alone isn't enough. And when I say that women are much more cunning with this than most guys think, I'm not being a feminist, but just stating the truth. You have no idea what she can figure out with a 20-minute phonecall, not to mention a 2-hour one. I keep a nice rule about phonecalls being meant for setting dates, and that's it. If there's something urgent, sure, but when dating someone, you call them for a date, settle the time and place and end the call - less than 2 minutes and you're done. You can tell her all about yourself on the date - even though I favor her talking instead of myself, but hey, it's your choice - so if you want to do it, save it for an eye-to-eye conversation. The reason why you shouldn't spend so much time on the phone is that it doesn't give out the impression you want to be giving out. You want to come across as self-confident and independent; slightly nonchalant, if you know what I mean. Not to seem like stuck up or irresponsible, but to not make your liking her so much so blatantly obvious. Why is it wrong, you ask me? It's because you want her to chase you, not to chase her. This way, she'll be much more excited about you, increasingly interested in you and want to keep you even after the spur of the moment is gone and the rosy glasses come off her nose and reveal the plain everyday life. On dates, you can be 100% aware of the communication going on between you two - unlike when you're on the phone. So what you do now is stop fretting about her not calling for 3 days - it's perfectly possible that you've already lost your chances with her, actually - and wait for 7 days before you call her again, and ask her out. If she asks you why you haven't called, and you just hope she does, you just tell her that you did, and when she asks when, you say "five seconds ago". Then spend the rest of the 100 seconds to set the date and end the call. This, if anything, will do the trick. Good luck.
  • bah girls are scared to call bro you gota call her before she gives up on it. after so long of waiting it changes up and she wont have that initial spark. that spark is what you gota jump on brotha! once its gone, its gone for good!
  • Give her a call.
  • she's just nervous in my opinion. give it another day or two and if she hasnt called call her
  • Please give her a call. If she gave your her number, that usually means she'd like you to call her. She might have an attack of the shys. It's also possible that she can't use the phone at home very often.
  • You're wasting your time over-analyzing things. Why should she call you just because you told her to? Your orders don't get to be followed all the time, you know. Anyway, you told her to call you sometime. You didn't tell her to call you within three days. Sometime can mean soon, later, in the future, or even never. If you want to talk to her on the phone, then call her yourself.
  • Wait her out. Seriously!
  • You need to call her ! She gave you her number, she talked to you for two hours ! She must like you and she is probably just a little shy to call you back... Give it a shot and just call her.
  • Camp on her front lawn with a sign that says "don't forget to call me"
  • Wait longer yo...
  • just be patient and if she don't call back then she don't like you.
  • I think she doesnt have caller id so she doesnt kno wat # to call back.
  • You two sure did talk for a while.
  • ok the call id answer is lame. chase her bro- chicks love the attention- call her again, talk and ask her if she wants to hang out. if she doesn't seem interested then flirt your damn eyes out! be cute, and confident! chicks love confidence. then it should be a hook line and sinker afterwards.
  • You dont want to sound too needy so see if you can "run into" her somewhere, but if you call you might sound needy and she could just want some space but each girl is different
  • Dont over do it, if she likes you she will call you. If she doesnt call you she isnt the one for u move on.

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