Be happy for her. The man or woman that you fall in love with should be your best friend. I'm sorry that it's weighing on your friendship with her, but smile for her finding happiness.

that Bitch...

tell her how you feel maybe she doesnt even realize that she is doing this

my best friend is doing the same thing...i need help too...i used to ask her if she wanted to come places but she would always say ...only if b/f comes and so i have finally given up but she is/was my best friend...we were so close

nothing, it happens. my boyfriend is now my best friend.

That is very normal. Give her some time and she will be back as the romance begins it's cool down phase. But you will do the same thing when you fall in love.

T_T iam in the same situation as u sis ... its soo hard we used to chat on the phone every day , tell eachothers secrets , doin random stuff together and we even used to sleep in the same time.. but after a while she XTREAMLY fall in love with some guy for like 1 and a half year now.. she treats me like shit she curses me and says " i was kidding " even thought when i tell her it hurts she say " UH ur going emo " when i call her shes like " ima hang up cuz nothing to talk about " when i ask her to go out shes like " naa ima stay with ma bf today " and even if we r together she talkes about him ... she just turned upside down ... We used to promise eachother to be Bffls not only that But Sisters !! seriously watching her being like that everyday kills me slowly .... i tried to talk to her but when i do she turns it against me and make a HUGE argument about it and i end up crying in ma bed drawning with the pain ... BUT NOW !! ill just let it move on ill handle her heavy words on me and smile ill be by her side all the time and i will love her for the last day of my life ill try to be calm and perfect i will w8 till she realize it .... hope u learned something from my story

I think my best friend replaced me with his girlfriend kinda, so I'm in the same boat as you. You just have to try hard to hang out, and though you may become great friends again, accept that things aren't really going to be like they used to ever again, no matter what.

gah...the exact same thing is happening to me...it's killing me.....and the worst part is that she doesn't even notice.

Chicks over Dicks?

Nothing, be happy for her. She'll be back. We've all been through it and if you truly are best friends, you're friendship will survive.

trust me I knwo, how that goes., It would ma me mad but now is like whatever,he a looser so I am sure she will come back to me,, and kick it like we used to