ANSWERS: 5
  • At least he is no longer a slave to his addictions
  • Dwell on the positive aspects of your memories and walk away from the negative memories. He is gone and allow the negative to go with him.
  • First of all I want to say that I am very sorry for your lost. You did love him at one time. My husband is a ex-drunk so he to was nice when sober but a real ass when drunk but I never stopped loving him. I don't know how you felt about him after you left him but now that he is gone-try to remember some of his good side. And move on with with your life. You got out of a hellish relationship and you should not feel bad that he is gone. God bless you.
  • Let yourself feel sorrow for him, by all means, but don't blame yourself. He chose his fate. You can't help people who won't help themselves.
  • Sorry for your lost. I also lost an x abuser,drunk lover,it was my daughters dad and the way I was able to cope with the lost was to learn to forgive him for what he did to me when his mind was over taken by the drugs and the drinking and to tell my daugter of the good things her dad was known for. I'll be praying for you ok. Dont blame yourself.

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