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You probably don't want to hear this. By the sounds of it your girlfriend doesn't mind this kind of behaviour from her ex. If that is the case then she may still have feelings for him. I think you must have talked this over with her, letting her know you find her ex's behaviour strange, and if she has done nothing to put a stop to it, then I think you have a problem. If she doesn't want his attention in that way then it is up to her to set things straight with him. You interfereing, while it might fuel your testosterone needs, will not impress her. I think it's ultimatum time - Does she see him as a problem, or is she happy for him to do what he is doing. If the latter, then it's not jealousy on your part but you need to get out of your relationship. If the formaer then she needs to make her feelings clear to him. You have to speak with her.
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I told my GF never to talk to any of her EX-BF's or I would break up with her (due to the fact that she kissed one, and talked to another, but I'm an ass....and I hate drama and complications, and she listened to me. So I solved it that way.
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I think you need to have a man to man coversation with the ex-boyfriend. Nicely explain to him that you are very unhappy when he puts his hands on your girlfriend and that you will not tolerate this disrespect that he is showing. As far as her wanting to be "friends" with the former love interest, that should be her call, but this dude needs to keep his hands off the lady.
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if she doesn't like his behaviour, she needs to say so (assertively) herself. he's more likely to listen if it comes from her as opposed to somebody else. that is of course, assuming that is what she really wants.
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unless shes nourishing his behavior tell her to tell him to stop if that dosnt work tell him yourself. if shes nourishing and adding to his behavior you need to dump her and move on because you deserve better than a girl like that
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She needs to be firmer with him...and set clear boundaries. She can tell him that putting hands on her without her permission is assault and that if he doesn't stop she will report it. If she can be that strong..he will see she means it and back off...or suffer the consequences. You need to stay out of it and let her take charge of this jerk herself.
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