Hey Ladies and guys please help?? There's this awesome girl but she is dating someone. Her and the person, she's dating aren't really doing that great and I want her to know I'm in love with her, but I never tell people how i feel.I'm really shy about it.
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Look, just don't catch her on the rebound. You'll end up hurting yourself much more than you think.
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send her some flowers with a card telling her how you feel.
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Get to know her really well, then perhaps she'll confide in you. Don't become a wedge in between her and her present boyfriend, but just be present.
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this is going to sound very very stupid but it works... sometimes... or at least that's what my guy friend said. say, "If i were to tell you that i loved you and asked you to leave ____(boyfriends name) for me, what would you say?" and if she reacts badly, say, "whoa whoa wait! i did say if! as in hypothetically!" and call it a day. good luck!
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Try to be a great friend to her. She should kno her current relationship isnt going to well and if you hang with her occausionally and grab her eye by just being there for her she might realise the relationship she is in right now is not the right one.
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Be honest, but don't push her on this. She needs to decide for herself whether she should keep going with this guy, and if she asks you about it, apologize and say that she should ask someone else. If she asks why, tell her, and admit that you're biased because of it. Recommend a friend to talk to if you can. Remember, she's vulnerable right now. You can't take advantage of that without proving yourself unworthy of her.
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I would suggest just being her friend for now so she can get to know you better....But I would advise you not to tell her you love her because chances are you dont love her you just like her...
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