by browneyez on May 22nd, 2008

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My husband has a friend that is a girl. I just found out he has been talking to her everyday, texting and "friendly flirting", (they call it) with her. I don't know whether to let it go and let him continue this friendship or if

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by Chelsea Girl on May 22nd, 2008
You've got trouble brewing. Intervene quickly.
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by Galeanda on May 22nd, 2008
There is no such thing as friendly flirting if it hurts someone and it usually does. When you are married, it's like sending out sexual messages without the act. I think for a secure, happy marriage it is a safety feature to not have friends of the opposite sex at all. That's not to say not be friendly but it shouldn't go beyond that. It's too much of a risk, and why would anyone want to place themselves in that sort of position, and risk losing their lifetime commitment? No one should be confiding and discussing things with someone other than their marriage mate. Confidences build intimacies and those should be saved for spouses.
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by Live to Ride on May 23rd, 2008
No,you don't let this continue! It might be innocent now but it won't be for long. You need to make him understand that this friendship makes you uncomfortable and that you need him to stop. If he refuses, call a counselor and let them help him see the light.
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by Hallie_W on November 18th, 2010
Your husband needs a massive wake up call. Either be flippant and go...hey...I have a friendly flirt partner too. You are right its really fun. I bet he will go through the roof which means he has been way past friendly flirting in his talking.
Any engagement with another woman in conversations when you are married and your spouse does not know the person is just asking for trouble and he sounds like he is begging for it. One thing leads to another...If not with this friendly flirt ..another...make your boundaries known asap and if he cant abide by it...make other choices..life is too short to be the one cheated on...
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